The rejection of change is usually quite large since we do not like other people to advise us on what we should change in our lives, but of course if you are not open to making changes and modifying certain aspects of your life, you will never see any real results and For this reason, today I would like to comment on what I think are habits that can make us more confident and determined people, and that will help us to gradually dissolve all these doubts we have about ourselves, so if you are willing to giving is a chance and I mean giving them a real chance, I advise you to read until the end of the post.

Set big goals, but focus on accomplishing small ones.

How many times have we tried to do something that develops us as people and have said things like "I'm going to get in shape", "I'm going to create my own project" or "I'm going to improve all my habits" and in the end we haven't changed at all, These affirmations are the ultimate objectives that we want to achieve, but once defined, we must forget about them and define the operational objectives that we can achieve at this very moment.

If we do not do it, it is most likely that we will get stuck without knowing what to do and when this happens, the confidence we have in ourselves will radically decrease, it is of vital importance that once these great objectives have been defined, we place ourselves on the path that will take us towards them and for this it is necessary that we begin to act as soon as possible and without making excuses to leave those actions for tomorrow.

The big goals are a good reference. but they can also hit us if we focus too much on them and constantly imagine what it would be like to achieve it without really making progress in achieving it, so I advise you to stop placing all your attention on them and concentrate on meeting those mini goals that little by little They will direct you to your final destination.

Your Priorities come first.

Self-confidence has a lot to do with your own sense of progress and this cannot be subordinated to the decisions and actions of others, it does not matter if the people who fourth you or put their interests before you are your family, your partner or your best friends, NO ONE should make you believe that your preferences are below theirs, otherwise it will be impossible for you to become a person with high self-esteem.

If at any time you see that due to the decisions of others you are harmed in some way and you cannot fulfill what you have proposed, you must learn to separate yourself a little from them and learn to say no with all the respect in the world.

Others do not have to know your goals, since that is the path that you will have chosen and it may be that if they realize that you think that they are an impediment to achieving them, they will not take it too well, so it is best to be Respectful and kind whenever possible.

Learn to take the initiative.

Self-confident people are bold and make decisions convinced that there is value in their words and one of the things they usually do is guide situations in the way they consider correct, in this sense something that helps a lot to Increasing your self-esteem is taking the initiative in any situation in which there are doubts about what to choose, in which a clear intention is shown that there is a certain group consensus, therefore a very useful thing at the moment and it is something that I personally like to do, is to offer ideas as soon as the opportunity arises using phrases such as I propose that we do such, which I think this option would be the most reasonable, or my suggestion is that it would be better to do this.

It doesn't matter if your idea is the best or the most appropriate, what really matters is that you have put yourself in a situation in which you take the lead and show that what you say has weight in the conversation and this is something that if I repeat whenever you can will end up reinforcing that security that you want to obtain

Take care of your appearance.

Finally, we would have the aspect of these suggestions that may seem more superficial but that undoubtedly has a lot of relevance in that security that you can transmit, it is no secret that appearances have an enormous influence on the mental image that we create about someone, and that due to these we attribute a series of characteristics inherent to that person.

For this reason, taking care of your appearance makes those characteristics that people have about you good and knowing that they will be good, you will act with much greater ease and security, because you will be aware that everything that your appearance transmits is something positive and by this I mean your physical condition, body language, the clothes you wear exposed, your hair, your accessories or even the pain it gives off, so I recommend that you take care of all these points if you want to increase your safety and do not be afraid of change certain aspects of your appearance, since many times we unconsciously cling to the image we have always had, even when it was terrible.

As I mentioned at the beginning, tips are the ones that, in my opinion, can have the most power, so you decide to apply them in your day-to-day life, so I advise you to try them slowly in order not to saturate them and gradually get used to them.

And if there is any other that you think can complete this list and that you have already experienced in your own flesh, do not hesitate to leave it in the comments below, as always, thank you very much for your support.