How a proper live life ship should start

When I looked at most factors that affects relationship this days aside not having a mutual understanding and lack of good communication.. As days turns to years I later find out most relationship end in tears for most guys that got into a relationship with a jobless lady and one which does not even have no ideal ambition in life, same as few men out there which make relationship ends in tear for a lady.. I know most of y'all are gonna be wondering why being jobless in a relationship is what I chooses as part of the main factors that affects some relationships not all... Okay imagined you having a girlfriend who works in a particular firm from mon-fri, and earns at least 30thousand naira which is equivalent to $100 monthly and you as the guy also works and earn roughly 50k in a month which is $180, absolutely both of you are doing fine and have just few times for each other and the lady will not based all of what she needs on you because she's working which makes her face the relationship and never bring any financial trauma into it, even thou its normal for you to make it up to your partner financially, but if the time your partner is needing your help 'financially' is your trying time he/she will understand better and never got distracted from the courtship by that because they're working ... But imagine having lady which is jobless and have a high rate of exposure, educated, smart and social kind of, whereby you as a guy had a job, but she never had any, you've been the one doing the do financially, my brother any day that financial figure she's sees in you fails her a bit, she will be traumatised and felt like you never existed because you the only left back up she had just like a 'phone power bank' and this feelings start making her affection for you gets depreciated and the abnormal rate of argument increased, in less than 2weeks she got to develop some unusual attitude which left you guys with nothing than a break up ...

If you just read this relationship based article by me 'Rilioba' I think you should try to project that into the kinda relationship you dealing with right now and take note.... I'll be taking questions in the comment box and don't forget to like my article .

Thanks 'Rilioba'