Very Emotional Wedding {5photo}

in WORLD OF XPILAR3 years ago

Hi steemit friends wherever you are!

A few days ago I attended the wedding of a friend of mine. Long ago I was on the phone and an invitation was sent via my WA.

My friend asked me to attend his wedding. This is the second marriage for the bride and groom, both of whom are widows whose husbands have died and widowers who are divorced from their wives.

My friend is the bride's side, she is my school friend since middle school and has been married for 12 years and has not been blessed with children until her husband died about 9 months which sold out.

Marriage is a very emotional thing in life, everyone in the world must feel marriage.

In Islam, marriage has very good rules with predetermined conditions. The most important procedure carried out in marriage is the Ijab Kabul, the prospective husband must hold the tabg with the bride's marriage guardian.

At the time of the acceptance of consent, the witnesses must listen carefully because if the witnesses do not hear the time of the acceptance of consent, the marriage is invalid.

At the time of the Ijab Kabul, the bride and groom are prohibited from sitting next to the groom because they have not been said to be a couple if the marriage agreement has not been completed perfectly.


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Terkadang saat ijab kabul banyak terjadi kesalahan, baik dari waki nikah maupun dari mempelai pria jarena pada saat itu, kedua belah piha bahkan saksi semua gugup, itu hanya disebabkan psikosomatik.


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After the consent is completed, the bride is only allowed to sit beside the groom, meaning that they are both legally husband and wife.

Feelings of emotion also crossed for all the guests who were present, especially for the bride and groom. It's really very emotional.

Next, the bride and groom sign the dossier containing the agreement that has been set. Here are some rules that must be followed by the bride and groom.


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After that, the bride and groom are invited to greet their parents, here feelings of sadness and emotion seep into their souls, because what is reflected in their minds is the past that can no longer be achieved.

Parents are sad to see their children can no longer live together like they used to. They will live happily independently in their own way of life.


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You can imagine if the children we take care of from childhood to adulthood are taken away and can't be as close as they used to be, it's really sad.

This is already felt by some people in the world. Life has turned and has not revolved in the same path but on different paths distributing insect repellent.

Maybe this is just my post today, hopefully the visa will be useful for all of us.

@marsyudin

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