I know what you mean I feel the same and still don't knkw what the best place is for me. For sure these are smaller commumities I feel easily overwhelmed en worse smothered by the crowd. It's also as if I am not welcome and the bigger the group is the mote a few reign. If you want to feel good here it's important to do it your way.

I wish you a great time on Steemit and happy writing.
If you write stories it's good to do so at a place where they are appreciated.
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@wakeupkitty