Do you think it's right to trap a man with pregnancy?

Hello my fellow Steemians, how are you today? Hope you are fine as I am. I appreciate @okere-blessing and Steem for lifestyle for organising this contest. This topic is not just interesting but is an issue that is prevallent in our society today. I am happy to give my inpute on this topic today.

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Do you think it's right to trap a man with pregnancy?

No! I don't think it's right to trap a man with pregnancy. Marriage is not just for mature people but for people who love each other and are ready to stay together as husband and wife. Trapping a man with pregnancy is like forcing the man to marry you against his wish. If this happens, the lady may not enjoy the marriage to the fullest since the union is against the man's wish.

A man may love a lady but may not want to marry her. Therefore, if such a man is trapped by pregnancy, he will not or may not give out love to the lady concerned. In another way round, If a lady trapped a man with pregnancy, she might also have trapped herself because anything can happen. She may or may not enjoy the marriage.

Do you think it is compulsory to marry who is pregnant for you when you are not ready?

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No, I don't think its compulsory to marry a lady who is pregnant for you when you are not ready. This readiness could mean the man is not buoyant enough to keep a wife. It could also mean he doesn't love her. For this reason, if these two marry, there is every possibility that:

1. The lady may suffer due to the lack of readiness of the man.
2. The man may suffer to meet the demands of the family.
3. Both the man and woman may suffer it since they have no plan for it.

Why do you think some girls involve their selves in this trapping

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I feel some girls involve themselves in trapping because of the following reasons:

1. Some girls feel that they have invested a lot into the relationship or invested so much in the life of the man and can not let go of him. Therefore, if they have the opportunity they trap.

2. Desperation: Some ladies at some point may feel it's getting too late because all their friends have married, and people as well as their families are asking what is happening or when will they bring their own man. So, to put an end to this issue they will trap a man whether he loves them or not.

3. Love: For some ladies, they trap a man because of the love they have for him. They feel he is the right man for them and they don't care whether he also is in love or not.

I almost fall victim to this. A lady brought herself so close to me and made herself well known in my family and unknown to me that she had a plan of trapping me. She will cook food bring it to the house and also assist them in carrying out some house chores. A few months later she began to spread the news that we were planning to get married. It became so serious that I had to apply certain measures to disengage her from every member of my family. For a lady like this, if she has a chance of trapping me she will without hesitation.

Do you think that there are successful marriages that start with pregnancy disagreement? Share some stories with us.

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I know someone who impregnated a lady and then denied it completely. The families had a series of meetings but they could not settle the disagreement between the two so everybody went away. The man later got married and a few years later divorced his wife due to the issue of witchcraft and fell back into this same girl he denied impregnating. Today, they are happily married with four children including the first child he denied the pregnancy.

Thank you for spending time on my blog. I invite these friends of mine to also participate: @dave-hanny, @mesola and @m-fdo.

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