At least be a big Dreamer!
Are you not in the position where you thought you would be by now?
Relax!
It happens.
Life is not like you can replicate everything you thought, the way you wanted. You may fail several times, you may live a different type of life. But that's not all, that's not the end of everything. There's still you as long as there's your dreams.
That's why, never stop dreaming.
It's okay if you can't live your dream. But at least you can say to yourself, you dreamed, you are a big dreamer!
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