SIZ Education | 5 Biggest Fears In Life That Can Be Turned Into An Opportunity

We all have fears about different things, but that doesn't mean it will hinder our lives. Fear is basically worry about the future and we have the ability to change our perspective on it.

Let's see how we can take positive action and turn some of the biggest fears in our lives into opportunities for life change:

Fear of the future!

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To my friends, don't ever precede something that hasn't happened yet. Tomorrow is something that is not yet tangible, intangible and has no taste and color. Therefore, why should we concern ourselves with tomorrow, worrying about misfortunes that might happen to us, thinking about events that will happen to us, and predicting something that is not necessarily the case.

Therefore, Live and make the most of this day. Don't think too much about an uncertain tomorrow. If you are in the morning, then don't wait for the afternoon. Likewise when you are in the afternoon, don't wait for the night. Because today is your day, not yesterday that has passed with all its good and bad, not also tomorrow that still doesn't necessarily come.

Let tomorrow come by itself. Never ask how he is and don't wait for his disastrous attack. Because today you are very busy.

Fear of the realities of life!

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Live life according to reality. Don't get lost in fantasy, and never look into the realm of imagination. Face life as it is, control your soul to be able to accept and enjoy it. However, it is impossible for all friends to be sincere to you and all things perfect in your eyes. Because sincerity and perfection are the characteristics and characteristics of the life of the world.

It is better if we close ranks, unite steps, forgive each other and make peace again, take things for us to do, leave things that are difficult, close our eyes to some things for certain moments, and put aside things that can disturb us.

Fear of life's difficulties!

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The difficulties of this life are relative matters, that is, everything will be difficult for a small soul, but for a big soul there is no term great difficulty. A big soul will be bigger because it is able to overcome those difficulties. While a small soul will get sicker, because it always avoids the difficulty.

Adversity is like a dog ready to bite; it will bark and chase you if you look scared when you see it. On the contrary, he will let you pass in front of him quietly if you ignore him, or you dare to glare at him.

Fear of failure

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The most common fear is the fear of failure. We all fear not being good enough. It's not good enough to start a new business, take classes or try something new. If you let it, fear of failure will keep you from trying and it will keep you from doing your best. You will not give 100 percent of your struggle and effort because you are afraid to sacrifice everything but fail.

On the other hand, if you don't try too hard because if it doesn't work, it will make you feel like you don't really want it or so you won't be too disappointed if you fail, right? If you have a fear that is too great to even try, then you will hold yourself back.

Therefore, my advice is Don't be afraid to take risks. Don't be afraid to follow your dreams and your heart. If you're excited to take on a new project or venture, go for it. If it doesn't work, you will use the experience to learn, grow and become stronger.

One of the most valuable lessons my father taught me was to keep following your dreams and persevering. If on the first try I didn't achieve my dream, then he would encourage me to try again. He always said "Keep going, keep trying and never give up." It doesn't matter if you're first or last, as long as you want to get to the finish line.

I said to myself, "I will not fail until I stop fighting." If I have a goal and move forward and get closer to achieving it, then I will not fail. Although there were some setbacks along the way. It may not be a straight path to the finish line, but with every obstacle and challenge I will grow and get stronger. That's how we should look at situations that challenge us and see them as opportunities for growth, so we won't think we've failed. We have to think "this challenge is not what will fail me, but it will make me stronger."

Fear of people's judgment!

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All of us are often faced with the fear of getting hurt if we speak and the fear of not being able to say the right things. And in the end, the fear of other people's judgment makes us silent. Today I was able to understand that I won't always say the right thing and that's okay. I speak, make my voice heard and that alone makes a difference.

The goal is not to be perfect, but to make progress getting better and better as time goes on. We need to put ourselves out there regardless of what people think and let those judgments get to you. Speak the truths you guide, even when your voice trembles as you speak them. Likewise in making decisions, we are too afraid of being judged for making decisions. We are too afraid of being judged for making the wrong decision, as much as we are afraid of failure. But who is to blame? It's better to make a decision, even if it turns out to be the wrong one for you, than to make no decision at all. At least by making a decision, then you move forward. If it turns out to be a mistake, then you can learn from it. If you don't make decisions at all, then you don't have a chance to grow.

There's nothing worse than having someone else make the decision for you. Each of us is a unique being and has a unique purpose in life as well. When we allow others to dictate that goal, then we will not live the truth that we guide.

A piece of advice though well-meaning, really from someone else telling you what's in their heart and soul, but you won't live from your own heart if you just follow their word mindlessly.

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Therefore, don't let the fear of other people's judgments judge you and continue to follow your heart.

Maybe this is all I can say on this occasion. I hope this post can be useful for all of you. Thank you very much for friends who have taken the time to read my post. Good luck to all of you. :)

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