Contest Alert ⚠️ 1 Picture 1 Story Week #65
Faithful God of all universe, the protector of humankind, preserved and keeps us all from evil. Welcome to my blog, @vickyson
This life is so amazing and at some point, if you look at it from your duration you will see that it all started somewhere and headed to some destination I came across this beautiful old couple who have lived together in Love More than 60 years of marriage they have lived to love each other during the love and crisis they never let go of each other
I was sitting beside the Grandma when I visited her home and I was asking how she managed to come this far with her partner she told me that my daughter the lesser you see the lesser worry you'll get don't expect too much from your partner and you will joining to the forevermore together, she said that she never expected too much from the relationship and that is why everything work out for her good
She said that she studied her partner carefully and she knew that respecting him was the most medicine to his heart and that was what she did all her life she has made herself to be his slave and he made himself love her for who she was because he's ego has not been deprived she further tells me that love alone is not enough from the wife she has to respect her husband regardless of the situation
When I see it back I realize that many marriages have problems because of disrespect from the opponent, a wife is obligated to respect her husband while the husband is supposed to love the wife with all that lives in him but when this two is not in your marriage and relationship it leads to separation you will find out that as some point Your stay with your partner becomes frustrated Because what you supposed to enjoy with your partner is not forthcoming into action
In my inquiry, I also understand that she said we jump into marriage because we see others going into marriage forgetting the load and boarding that come with the marriage, going into marriage in life and building it into an elastic home It has to come from a mature hearts you need to be prepared to face the laughter and the tears that comes with marriage is not just going into marriage that matters
But can you face the challenge that comes we the marriage home they are not always beard of roses they have tones and Regis that you need to pass and get to the success land
I have learned a lot from her At first when I joined this marriage train I asked myself so many questions that no one gave me the answer and when I looked around I said that I didn't belong here and I must leave this marriage behind But when I realized that it's not a child play I have to sit up and tighten up my belts to face the bitterness and the sweetness of the marriage.
Marriage is like a pregnant woman Who is expecting patiently for the baby to arrive After that She will nurse the baby from sitting down to crawling and then start walking and becoming a fully grown-up man that is how a journey of forevermore starts with zero point of road
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