Hi @mona01, greetings from here.
I've read about your kind of challenges, as a newbie, we need someone to help us climb the ladder, i mean.... understanding the way of steemit. Your brother was there but his busy schedule at should couldn't allow him steady in lecturing you about those things. You know what, you're now mastering steemit in posting and doing others things on yourself self alone. The beginning is always difficult but at times goes on, it becomes easy. I hope you'll continue to enjoy your steemit journey. Best of luck friend.🤗