Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting contest which is launched by @abdullahw2 all time my favourite topic "The Role Model of My Heart" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic

Of course we need a role model in our life. Because happiness and sorrow keep coming in life, sometimes we become so disappointed with our problems that we lose our desire to live further. Then we need a role model. Seeing whom we, and being influenced by whose words, we are again inspired to achieve our goal with all our courage and enthusiasm.

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We also consider those who influence us as role models. Whom we want to be like, because not every person has all the qualities. Some have a lot of courage, some lack courage, that is why we can say that we need a loan model in our life.

I am greatly influenced by two people in my life, one is my mother and one is Rani Laxmibai of Jhansi. The qualities of both of them are different. The reason why she was influenced by Rani Lakshmibai of Jhansi is that she never gave up in her life. Despite her husband being martyred in the war, she did not bow down to the enemies but instead tied the child in her breast to the enemies. What I mean to say is that no matter how much trouble he faced, he never gave up, so in this way he is a role model to boost my courage.

And secondly, I am influenced by my mother because I want to take her qualities of simplicity, helpfulness and motherly love, but I do not want to take the qualities which she used to be helpless. I always saw my mother helpless. She felt that her maternal home was not nearby, her husband was also not alive, so she had to bow down to her in-laws and she never faced this society with strength, so when I felt no need to bow down, When someone tries, I remember all those moments of my mother's life, so I do not give in. If I am right then I definitely express my views, whether it is my husband or my children or anyone outside. I don't live under compulsion, I always have a desire to learn and an enthusiasm to do something.

In life, within the family and within the society, such moments keep coming when sometimes we have to show enthusiasm and sometimes we have to be gentle. Now that my children are growing up, I keep a close eye on them. I remain a friend of the children, when the children come from school or coaching, I give them time and talk to them whether it is their friends or teachers or anything related to studies. I definitely listen to them. Wherever there is a need to explain, I explain.

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Wherever there is something to have fun with, I do that too. Because in today's time it is very important to have friendly behavior with children, otherwise the children will not tell you their feelings and I also show strictness to them wherever I have to, so it remains in the mind of the children that they should not expect anything from their parents. Will not be able to hide. I have learned all these qualities from my mother only.

The teachings of my idol influence both my personal and business life. Because I help my husband at home as well as at his shop. So, my personal behavior cannot be applied in the business field. For example, I love speaking, but I speak a lot outside my business field and remain straight forward. Because in today's time it is very important.

Initially, when I suddenly had to come to the shop, I was a little nervous as to how I would do it. My children were very young at that time, but then keeping my role model in mind, I found a new enthusiasm within myself and then set my daily routine in such a way that today going to the shop and managing the house are included in my daily routine and now this work I don't face any problem while doing it.

I would invite my few friends @uzma4882 , @dasudi , @heriadi , @f2i5 ,.

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