Steemit Engagement Challenge S13W1- “"What obstacles have you faced/facing to fulfill your dream?"

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#hindwhale is fast and growing community and always bring power pack contests but this time I am really emotional to take part in this contest, I felt that I am writing my own biography. I am really thankful to @hindwhale for such a amazing contest 🙏

Basically in this contest, we need to write about What obstacles have you faced/facing to fulfill your dream. So let's start to write ✍️

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Everyone have dreams in their life and people have right to see dreams, actually it is important also because if you will not see dreams, you will have no goals to achieve and life is nothing without certain goals.

Few people are fortunate because they achieve what they want but few are unfortunate like me who always see struggle and longing for small dreams.

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My dreams which I want to achieve:

Since 2009, I came on internet and started searching online work, I tried Paid to Post, Paid to click, Paid to Upload, Surveys sites etc all were scams. I had wasted my precious time but could not earn $1 from those websites.

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Then I came to know about blogging which is real and people are earning huge amount from their own blogs. Having own successful blog have various source of income like Google Adsense, Affiliate program, Sponsored post, Sponsored Back links. So I had seen this dream that I will start my own blog and will make it popular and successful.

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I had started few blogs but I became fail and now I want to start again with good concept but I know it is not easy but this is my dream which I want to achieve in my life.

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My second dream is to be successful in Steemit platform because it is real and passive source of income. When I see successful Steemit members who always get support from big curators so I always dream that when day will come in my life when I will get support and upvotes from big curators.. Trust me on that day, I will take long breath with relaxation.

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Well excuses are not good because successful people always say that excuses are nothing. But here if I have to answer so I say my first obstacles is I don't have my own computer to start my blog.

I mean yes I can start with my mobile phone but it is not easy to handle from phone. This time I am out of cash and I am not able to buy my own computer, because I have many other expenses on my shoulder which I need to face.

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Time is also big problem for me, I work in shop from 10.30 am to 9.00 pm and after that I become so tired but still I don't sleep and work till midnight but it is very tough and impacts on health. I have many things in my mind but don't have time to excute.

My elder brother is most biggest obstacles in my life. He made my life pathetic seriously. I thought I will join him at shop so we will work together and earn money but he became good for nothing. He is short temper, never allow to do anything at shop, never try to increase income, never allow me to go anywhere, never allow me to work on mobile at shop, he wastes major part of income on his own luxury expenses and all these are biggest obstacles in my life.

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My elder sister Vandana encourages me very much. I remember when I was not working on Steemit just because I was not getting any support so she made me understand that every day is not same day. You should do your work and rest up to your luck and God.

But if you will not work, there will be zero percentage chances that you will get something. So always give your best shot and rest let it be..

My wife encourages me a lot , she always tell me that stick with 1-2 work and give your best. Don't search a lot of work at same time because this sucks all energy and time.

So I get encourages from my family. They are my strength also.

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My biggest dream is to own house 🏠 because I am living in renting house and I want to buy own home. Now this is not new dream, I saw this dream in 2005 but still could not complete it. Now top obstacles are :

My elder brother is number one obstacle :

As I said above, how is he. He is my major problem that I could not buy home because unfortunately he is decission maker in my house. But he is not able to do that but still he rules on us. He always made wrong decision and never tried to save money and now result is We are going through very bad condition and it is so far to buy home.. He is obstacles for my all problems.

Arpit Agarwal, who is son of my elder brother is number 2 obstacles of my life. Why? Like a father..Like a Son. He is walking on path of his father. He is 23 years old and one year back, He wasted 10 lakh Indian rupees on foods, debt, wines.. which is equal to 72k Steem. This amount is enough to build single store home but all money wasted on unnecessary things.

There is no need of explanation of third obstacles, these 2 obstacles are enough to make my life worst. What is my mistake? Just because I am part of family and I am emotionally connected to them and that's why I don't have guts to leave them on their own way. I always worked hard at shop and tolerated violence of elder brother just because my thought was if I will bear and sacrifice my life so all other family members will live good but they wasted my sacrifice and done wrong things in life and it hurts me alot..

I would like to invite my few friends for this contest: @o1eh, @fjjrg, @eliany, @graceleon