SEC-S16/W3 - "Who has the strongest influence on children? Father, mother, teacher, siblings, or friends? "
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Father
Offspring look to their originators as masters of rules and enforcement. They also look to their fathers as a lion and chief security of the households both physical and passionate. Children make their fathers superior because 95% of the decisions are taken by the father and everyone in the family is answerable to him because he's the head of the family Foundation, father have great influence in their children's life because the children have more fear when it's come to their father they have a lot of respect and confidence in their father they have strength each time their father is around them for protection
Fathers influence their children's lives when it comes to stable relationships and behavior around the family once the father has a cordial relationship with his family it builds children's influence in generations to come. it helps them to grow up right and self confidence in what they are doing because they see him as a guardian they follow in his footsteps as they grow up, and they exhibit most of his character as time passes by because he is the role model in their life.
Most of the generational violence that we see today started way back with our four fathers because of the influence the children have from their fathers, some beat their wives in front of their children which has a negative influence on the children's lives as they grow and some behavior like a wild animal and that live in negative influence in the children's life. in this modern generation, some fathers have a negative influence on their children by getting a divorce smoking habit drinking, and coming home late it has a negative influence on the children's lives as they grow up, in as much as they try, it leaves a sport in their mind regarding what the father does.
Being a superior of the family a father must live a good Legacy for his children to follow. so the father has both positive and negative influence on their children's lives.
Mother
Mothers have a great influence on the growth and development of a child she is connected to the child directly and that is why she has a close and cordial relationship with the children when they are growing up most of their secrets are kept safe with the mother they confide in her when they have a problem because she is a loving soul right from the beginning God has imparted her with the wisdom of love and kindness she has compassion for her children no matter what happened she put their happiness first and that is why she has influence that affects their life positively.
Exhibition of a mother's habits influences her children because she is their first teacher right from the womb she teaches them self-confidence on how to start working first speech when they want to talk they eventually exhibit every character she possesses whether positive or negatively mother has 95% of influence in the children live
Mothers also find time to listen to their children even without a solution to the problem she giving the children hope and encouragement Mothers always make themselves available to reach and that influences the children strongly.
Teacher
Once the children leave home for school the teacher represents the father and their mother on the school premises they become their role models they influence their life in most aspects of their education even though the children learn from home before attending School they learn Moral and respect from the school because they have respect for their teachers because the teacher can directly punish them when they do something wrong and the teacher knows that a child that is being handled with a Reliant hand will be of no use in the future so
they use iron hands to handle the children in the school environment so that they will become great leaders of tomorrow most of the presidents, senators, and governors that we have, they have been taught by a teacher in their school most of them make reference to their teachers way back I have become this person in life because of my teacher the children have a second place of respect for the teacher compared to that of his parent at home.
Siblings
Siblings influence each other because they rely on each other to grow especially the Elder the oldest sibling is a watch Road for the younger one because they look at her character and behavior in the environment where they live whatever she does it lives influences on her siblings when I was growing up I always wait for my elder sister to do something before I follow and once she sit down I always sit
saying why is she not doing it and I come to realize that it influences me I come to realize that when I have younger ones behind me they always wait for me to take action before they can partake in what I am doing and so siblings have a strong bone with each other they are always connected in character exhibition and their love for each other is beyond measure despite all their dispute they always influence each other with love and likeness for one another.
my son and his friend
If care is not taken in this aspect of influence from Friends it always devier the children from good it depends on the type of Friends they keep some of them keep good friends which influence their life positively and others keep bad friends which influence their life negatively. I have known of a brother who was God-fearing before leaving for school but as time passed by he became worse than the people we were seeing as bad guys because
he has been influenced negatively in the school environment and keeping the company of bad friends always influences you with bad character so parents always have to check the type of friends that their children keep so that the good lessons they receive will not be wasted. is not bad if a guidance keeps an eye on their children to see the type of friends that keep them company.
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Mothers have a huge impact on a child's growth and development. They have a special connection with their children, right from the start. Children feel comfortable confiding in their mothers and trust them with their secrets and problems.
A mother's love and kindness are truly remarkable. She always puts her children's happiness first and shows compassion towards them. This unconditional love and care have a positive influence on their lives.
As the first teacher in a child's life, a mother plays a vital role in shaping their character. From teaching them self-confidence to their first words, children often exhibit the habits and traits of their mothers. This influence can be both positive and negative, so mothers need to set a good example.
Mothers not only listen to their children but also provide them with hope and encouragement, even when they don't have an immediate solution to their problems. Their availability and support have a strong impact on their children's lives.
It's truly amazing how much influence mothers have on their children. They are truly superheroes in their children's eyes.
💕🌹💓💗 indeed words are not enough to describe our mothers they are extraordinary people thank you for your kind comment I am grateful for your time.
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Congratulations! Your post has been upvoted through steemcurator08.Sometimes parents remain more smooth and soft in their behaviour with their children because they have blood relation with their children and they don't want to say any harsh word to the children due to this but teachers really not to handle situation with their iron hands as you are saying.