Dear friends,

I am Jyoti from India and im here going to participate in this SEC 12 Week3 contest :https://steemit.com/hive-179660/@hindwhale/k9zvh-steemit-engagement-challenge-s13w1-what-obstacles-have-you-faced-facing-to-fulfill-your-dream organised by our community

Former President of India Mr. Abdul Kalam has said that the dream is not what comes after we sleep but what keeps us awake from sleeping. It is the dream that keeps us awake until that wish is fulfilled.

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What obstacles have you faced/facing to fulfill your dream?

Write about a dream of yours that came true/or want to achieve.

A dream is a joyful event that one can create in his imagination, often connected to our future, sometimes it can be spontaneous or a long-held desire. At such a young age, I had a lot of dreams. When I was a child, I had one big wish from the day I knew about it. It was a talking Barbie girl doll. At that time, dolls were not so easy to buy. Even if you could buy them, you could only get ordinary plastic dolls sold in the streets during festivals. Talking dolls are rare, which were as expensive as I expected. But my dad bought one for me when he was went out of town once, and I think I remember my first dream fulfilled.

Constructing of my dream home, my father and my daughter standing in front of the house

Even though I had so many dreams, after marriage I stayed in a rented house with my children, then I had to face a lot of problems, I felt a lack of freedom, then I dreamed of owning my own house, we dreamed of how my house should be, and accordingly we made our house. We built, our house was built about Ten years ago and it is good we fulfill our dreams and we are very happy.

What obstacles have you faced/facing to fulfill that dream? How you overcame those obstacles?.

Before we built a house, we lived in a rented house. Because the rent is increasing every year. It was very difficult for us to pay the monthly rent. At the same time there was no facility to build own house. In those times it was not so easy to buy land here. Because the cost of land to build a house was around ten lakh rupees.

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However, we saved as much as we could and bought the land in a way. But we don't have money to build a house. So, we had to get a home loan from the bank and build a house. But we didn't get a loan that easily. In those cases the loan offer was very low because we had nothing to guarantee them except the land. Our business didn't grow that big. However, we tried many times and got a loan, the loan they gave and the money we earned somehow built the house.

Who encourages you to fulfill your dreams?

My husband and I realized at that time that a house was a necessity for my children because frequently changing houses affected our children's education, they did not get a proper tuition center, they had to join new friends, they could not concentrate on sports, and the children could not play freely in the rented house, so we decided to have our own house. After deciding my husband agreed to build a house he also encouraged me whereas in my house my father mother my brother and my husband's house his mother his brothers all supported us my husband's mother helped us financially.

What are the top 3 obstacles to not fulfilling one's dreams?

There are many reasons for one's dream realization. However, his dream is relevant to his needs. If one wants to succeed in education, he must first have interest in education. Whereas he perseveres. Hard work should be done. His family situation and the school and college environment of the college should be suitable for it. Likewise, if one wants to succeed in any field of life, he must have everything in that field. However I would like to say here that education is very important if one wants to be successful in general. The three most important are education. Confidence is perseverance

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