SEC-S16/W2 | Childhood trauma and incidents : how do they affect our children's life?
I am a teacher in one of the state schools in Indonesia, precisely in Aceh province, the beginning of my teaching began in 2008 as a service personnel as well as a place where I hone my teaching skills. Until now a lot of experience gained from the profession, I have learned and observed all kinds of things related to education. Starting from how to adapt and work with other teachers, how to improve the quality of teaching with various curriculum changes, to the method of teaching students to the ways and problems faced by students.
Students are not much different from my children, they have their uniqueness and constraints. All that is faced by children can start from their own, and can also come from outside so it becomes a problem for them. Mistakes in guiding and supervising children's behavior will certainly have an impact in the future, becoming a time bomb that will explode again and can scratch wounds for a long time.
Source photo illustration of my personal
What are the problems faced by children, & which are all childhood traumas? |
|---|
Actually, children's problems can arise from two causes, the first cause will usually have problems with their own circumstances and habits, while the second cause arises from their environment when interacting and analyzing many people. Thus childhood problems and traumas are events that children experience from themselves and the circumstances around them, usually become unpleasant and can become long-term problems in the same that will come and disturb their feelings until adulthood.
In many cases childhood problems and trauma can occur due to many things, including what often happens:
- The fear of certain circumstances and objects, arises from themselves.
- Physical, psychological, and also sexual violence.
- Experience scary things like disasters, wars, and parental divorce.
- Being a victim of bullying or bullying.
- Experiencing certain pains that interfere with its growth and development.
And many others.
 |  |
|---|
Source photo illustration of my personal
How to protect children from social bullying? |
|---|
One of the problems and also the impact of trauma that most occur in cases of bullying, cultural and lifestyle shifts make bullying cases a frequent event even for early children. Bullying itself is an action or behavior that degrades others and humiliates others in time continues to decline, so that traces in the feelings and thoughts of victims of bullying.
The best way to protect children from bullying is to improve the communication of parents with their children, or teachers with their students. Communication is needed to establish emotional closeness so that it can get information from the beginning if bullying occurs. Openness will make children feel safe in providing information that may disturb them so that bullying can be prevented as soon as possible.
The rest creates a comfortable atmosphere and feeling, increasing environmental awareness and caring things that are considered important to avoid bullying.
How to educate our children about good touch and bad touch? |
|---|
Educating children to be sensitive to bullying must start with parents to their children, it seems that we must return to teaching strong religion to our children. Because with a strong religious education as a foundation, will prevent them from bad deeds and also get bad behavior from others.
Other education is certainly by building children's self-confidence, teaching courage to resist bullying, building strong relationships with family and the environment by way of interaction, and many other positive things, even by improving self-skills in children depending on their interests.
Source photo illustration of my personal
What do we have to sacrifice to raise a good child? |
|---|
As parents, raising children is a form of responsibility, sacrifice is not for us to judge because it is an obligation. Guiding, caring for, and nurturing them to adulthood is the ultimate goal to ensure they grow as an educated generation. If we consider this a sacrifice for what we expect it to be in the world the relationship of parents to their children is not about sacrifice, but rather a responsibility.
Time and cost may be something we have to sacrifice when parents think raising children is a sacrifice because we have to spend it to raise them. Despite it all, children's problems and child trauma as much as possible we know through communication and strong relationships between families. We must be able to ensure that religious, academic education, and good social interaction can prevent our children from bullying behavior and also prevent them from bullying perpetrators.
So many posts of my participation on this occasion, that I invite @inspiracion, @alee75, @wilmer1988, and @lil.albab to participate. Best regards to all of you.
| Period | 04 December 2023 to 04 March 2024 |
|---|---|
| Transfer to Vesting | 1,256.909 Steem |
| Cash Out | 0 Steem |
| Result | Club100 |
| CSI | 16.2 (0.00 % self, 116 upvotes, 75 accounts, last 7d) |
Hello friend
You shared how much experience you have had with children and you are presently teaching kids which is a way for you to explain it better for us. You shared how you have good relationship with teachers and students to prevent trauma in kids. I enjoyed your entry and success in the challenge my dear friend
We support quality posts and good comments posted anywhere and with any tag.
Curated by : @ripon0630
Thank you.
Wajah anda kian bersinar semenjak menjadi ASN Kementerian Agama, begitu juga dengan hubungan anda dengan anak-anak juga kian mesra karena faktanya anda terpilih sebagai guru terfavorit kala itu. Semoga Anda sukses dan beruntung dalam segala hal.
Alhamdulillah, semua karena Allah. Anda memuji saya luar biasa, saya juga berharap anda dapat menyelesaikan S2 anda tepat waktu dan mendapatkan nilai terbaik. Terima kasih telah meluangkan waktu di sini.
Terima kasih atas doanya semoga Allah mendengarkan dan mengabulkan doa yang baik ini, jika tidak diselesaikan dengan tepat waktu maka seluruh tabungan juga akan terkuras karena mengingat mahalnya biaya pendidikan. 😆😆😆
You are a school teacher you know best about children and the problem they face. This is very true that kids need our supervising if they are mistaken. You have mentioned some beautiful examples of problems childer face in their life.
I pray for your success in the contest.
Thank you my sweet friend, your positive comments make me excited.
It takes a way of educating that is much different from the previous way, Every Age has a way to guide and teach children to avoid bad behavior.
May your days go well.
The best way to protect children from bullying is to improve the communication of parents with their children, or teachers with their students.
Communication is needed to establish emotional closeness so that it can get information from the beginning if bullying occurs.
Openness will make children feel safe in providing information that may disturb them so that bullying can be prevented as soon as possible.
I look forward to reading from you again. Sending my warm regards and wishing you success in the engagement.
Your thoughtful exploration of childhood trauma and the challenges children face especially as a dedicated teacher is truly commendable. Your insights into the various causes of problems and traumas along with practical solutions provide a valuable perspective The emphasis on communication strong relationships and religious education for children's well-being is both wise and inspiring. Your commitment to parental responsibility as a form of dedication is a powerful and positive outlook. stay blessed..
Upvoted. Thank You for sending some of your rewards to @null. It will make Steem stronger.
You are teacher so you must understand atmosphere and situation of children in better way because you deal with many children. I like the way you rasied your voice against sexual voilance and thats why children should learn about good touch and bad touch. Now a days this type if classes run in school also which is nice step to start.
Hola, estoy totalmente de acuerdo con usted que existen ciertos factores que traen como consecuencia estos traumas en los niños como los que nombró como la violencia física, la guerra, la agresión sexual y psicológica, en fín, existen muchos factores que pueden ocasionar en el niño ciertos traumas. Un divorcio por ejemplo, que es un caso muy común en nuestro medio puede hacer que nuestros hijos desmejoren en su eficiencia académica y pierda cierto interés a las cosas que a los chicos de su edad les agrada y entretiene y esto es un claro ejemplo de trauma psicológico.
Suerte en el concurso.