SEC-S16/W3 - "Who has the strongest influence on children? Father, mother, teacher, siblings, or friends? "
Introduction
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Talking about influence on a child or children, it's a very deep one. A child/children's life is influenced by many factors. f they are positive ones, then you are safe as a parent but if negatively, just know that you're in for it. You'll need more job to win that child back. For me, it doesn't matter who is influencing or not but let it be on the positive. My prayer is that are children should be influenced positively.
How does a father have a strong influence on children?
A father is an important figure in every home. He builds confidence, boldness and hardwork in children since they're very hard-working, confidence and bold beings. Children who watch their fathers closely tend to be influenced by these and most fathers want their children to be like them so they advise, follow up and mould the children's character and behaviours after theirs.
Meanwhile, most often, the father is always a disciplinarian in every home. He gives rules in the home and then dishes discipline/punishment to anyone who goes against the rules. That's why most times, he is the most feared/honored and refered person in the home.
How does a mother have a strong influence on children?
The mother is very smart, intelligent, brave and industrious. The mother teaches and instills good manners, builds character and gives advice where and when necessary. She is always a shoulder to cry on that's why she's always the most loved and affectionate.
Mothers influence with their hard work, humility, gentleness, kindness and compassion. Their softness, homely and good behaviours is a great tool to influence. That's why she may not need to discipline but just her words melts the heart and at the same time brings strength.
How does the teacher have a strong influence on children?
Just like the two parents, the teacher is a role model. He/she influences the children by their words, good manners, mode of dressing and self esteem.
Teachers have very high self esteem, they are bold and they are so confident in themselves. That's why the children believe in them, in whatever they say and teach.
How do siblings have a strong influence on children?
Siblings especially the older ones have a way of influencing their younger ones. That's why giving qgood home training to our children is important. Their behaviour has a way of influencing their younger ones because they're seen as role models to their younger ones.
How do friends have a strong influence on children?
The company our children keep is very important as these ones can influence each other. The reason is that they imitate each other and they also have a level of confidence and trust in themselves. That's why you hear cases where children tell their deep secrets to their friends and not their parents. So, as parents we must influence our children to the point of winning their trust so that we won't lose them to negative influence and advice from friends.
That's not disputing the fact that some friends are good and they also influence each other positively.
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Saludos estimado amigo, seguro que todo aquel que rodea el entorno de los niños influira de cierta forma sobre ellos en mayor o menor relevancia. Los psdres sin duda, son los principales en dicho aspecto. Éxitos en tu entrada.
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Mother is always a person who is very intelligent and smart because children before it's birth grows in the womb of his mother for 9 months so it is naturally by God mother have a lot of emotions and love for their children so by providing emotional support mother influence life of a children in her best way.
Yes, you're certainly right. The affinity the mother and children share right from conception to deliver also influence the children.
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From mother womb children receive a lot of attractive connection that remain throughout his life with children in the form of emotions and love for his mother.
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I completely agree with this sentiment. My own mother played a crucial role in shaping my character and values through her guidance and teachings. Her influence continues to impact me positively to this day.
I couldn't agree more. I've seen firsthand how friends can significantly impact a child's behavior and choices. As a parent, it's essential to foster an environment where positive friendships thrive to ensure our children are surrounded by good influences.
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Thank you, for the wonderful comment. I appreciate the fact that you support that mothers are wonderful beings.
Meanwhile, I really appreciate that you encourage parents to create an enabling environment to foster positive friendship for their children.
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Hola @eveetim, concuerdo con tu punto de vista, sin importar de parte de quién llega la influencia, lo importante es que sea positiva.
Igualmente, estoy de acuerdo con la influencia de las amistades y la confianza que tienen los niños en ellos, por lo que es relevante que, en lo posible, los padres se ganan la confianza de los mismos, lo que seguramente será positivo para los pequeños.
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