SEC-S16/W3 - "Who has the strongest influence on children? Father, mother, teacher, siblings, or friends? "
Charity begins at home so parents are entitled to groom their children so they turn out to become a responsible person in the future.
Also parents needs to live a good life in order to influence their children with good conduct but in life all sections that a child is exposed to contribute greatly in influencing a child.
As the head of the family, father is responsible for providing and taking care of his household . When it comes to training day father is also responsible for training his children and so the as different things a child needs to learn from the father.
Talking about influence, let me use DNA to site my illustration. A child right from the womb grows with some features of the father it could be the way the father talks, walks, complexions and any other thing that forms a resemblance of the of the child. With this when the child is born the training continues right from infancy.
My father really influenced us that till now I can only remember mostly what he usually said and how it is happening now, so father's have enough strong influence on her children.
Mother has the strongest influence on children if at all the mother spent more time with her children.
Most mothers now don't bond with their children, they don't even breastfeed from their breast, they pump and feed and in this case, the bonding is not form properly. At 6 months, the child will be sent to school so that the mother resumes work and so time for the bonding and influencing is not really there.
But in a home whereby the mother is available for her children, they are influenced the most by the mother. Everything a child learns at early age, is from the mother both academically, physically and socially the mother trains by example and the children learn quickly.
For example my 1 year 1 Month old baby is influence by me the mother.
When a child is of it to leave the house to school he or she spent more time with the teach than at home. The child get a lot of training from teach that if you don't know how you relate with your children properly, the teacher will be right at all times and you are wrong so teachers have influence on children as well.
Some moral training is done by the teacher, impacting of knowledge, skills etc. Is done by the teacher.
So many things I learned from my siblings so definitely siblings have influence on children as well. Children learn from example and she is back from school, the remaining hours of the day is spent with sibling and at this point whatever the siblings does, the children mimic it all.
This path is really significant because friends have strong influence on children. Bad associations spoils useful habits which affect a child so much that he or she can leave behind good morals ans follow a friend.
In all this people has strong influence in a child so you need to groom your children well so that the bad influence from friends at school you'll not spell
From my observation, I've noticed how children often inherit physical and behavioral traits from their fathers. My own kids exhibit mannerisms and characteristics similar to mine, which highlights the strong influence fathers can have on their children, starting from a very early age.
I believe this is true in many cases. I've seen how much my children absorb from my wife, not just in terms of academics but also in social and physical behaviors. They tend to mimic her actions and reactions, indicating the significant influence mothers have on their children's development.
Growing up, I've seen how the company children keep can greatly impact their behavior and values. It's crucial for parents to guide their children in choosing friends wisely to mitigate the negative influences that can arise from peer pressure.
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Yea you are right, your wife is really trying to care of the children at least what they kids absorb from the mum is not bad.
It's true that a mother's presence and involvement in her child's life can strongly impact their development, from academic and physical aspects to social and emotional ones. Your example of your own bond with your baby beautifully illustrates this point. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences on this topic.
Oh yea that's true thank you so much
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You're right in l ramifications especially the mother's role in influencing s child even when the child is an adult. It's also good to see how beautiful your daughter looks. She is really feeling the love, discipline and moral training given her. Can't wait to see her sibling 😁
Oh that's true
I admire my daughter a lot we spent 24hours together, i will be missing her soon as she will start school.
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That's true, everyone has influence in the life of a child but the mother's influence is the strongest influence on the child...
From the breastfeeding to the extra care and emotional support.
Kudos to all the mummies out there.
You guys have really done a great job
Siempre la vida se verá influenciada por alguien más.
Por eso es muy bueno examinarnos y autoreflexionar ¿Qué clase de influencia soy? ¿Soy positiva o negativa?
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