SEC-S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life? "
Assalam O Alaikum |
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Hello Steemians! Well come to my post. How are you all? I hope that you will be doing well by the grace of Almighty Allah. I'm also fine and enjoying my day. Today I'm here to participate in this Steemit engagement challenge season 16 week 2 in this Hindwhale Community community. The topic of this challenge is "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life?". So let's start the task without any more delay of time.
What are the problems faced by children, & which are all childhood traumas? |
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Friends as we all know that the children are very innocent and they may be get serious over little things. Then these things can steal their mental peace, they may traumatized can can face various mental health problems. If we talk about the problems which are faced by children and traumatize them, they are various in numbers. Let's have a detailed overview at the children's problems and the things which may traumatize them.
1. Cyber Bullying or Abuse:
- Friends as we all know now a days we are living in an era of social media and digital technology so the use of mobile phones has become very common. So now a days small girls are well aware about the use of social media and there they face cyber Bullying or sexual abuse and cane easily trapped by rapists.
2. Domestic Conflicts:
- Due to lack of understanding the parents often fight together at their houses and during that case they don't care about the thing as they do that things in front of their children. So in results the children may take these things too seriously due to their innocence and may get prone to trauma.
3. Academic Pressure:
- In childhood, most of the children have to play and studies as well and when they are failed in getting good marks they may face a problem in the form of academic pressure and it can also traumatize them.
4. Bullying:
- In the schools, a little conflicts raised among the children and they may convert into bullying which may steal children's mental peace and may left Long lasting effects on their overall well being.
5. Sudden Traumatic Events:
- Sometimes we have to face the loss of our beloved ones in the form of their deaths and that thing can put many negative impacts on the mental health of children and they may traumatize.
How to protect children from social bullying? |
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Yes dear friends it is very important for us to protect our children from social bullying as it is very dangerous and can put many negative impacts on their overall well being. The follow things may be helpful for protecting our children from social bullying.
1. Create a Supportive environment:
- Try to promote open communication with your children and always treat them politely. Also listen to them carefully and then respond in a nice manner so they may not get afraid of sharing their thoughts with you.
2. Raise Awareness:
- Teach your children about bullying and their bad impacts on their health. Also teach them to solve their minor conflicts with discussion and ignore little things which may create problem for themselves and for others as well.
3. Teach them Empathy:
- Teach your children to respect others and always stay positive. Also teach them think carefully before speaking anything and avoid those things which may hurt others.
How to educate our children about good touch and bad touch? |
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Friends according to me it is the most important question of that challenge as now a days it has become very important to teach our children about good touch and bad touch. The reason is that now a days the ratio of teen girls rapes is increasing day by day especially in asian countries so I think it should be done in schools, homes and through Social media so that every teen girl will be we aware of good and bad touch.
A few days ago I witnessed a video on social media in which a teacher was teaching students about the good touch and bad touch and I was very happy to see that. I also loved the way through which she teach the children about good touch and bad touch. So the following way she adopted to teach the children.
- First of all she thought them about the bad touch or good touch, she said any touch which make you uncomfortable is called a bad touch.
Then she removed the boundaries, guilt from children and taught them about body parts including private parts and also about their functions.
After that she explained the concept behind good touch or bad touch such as shaking hand, kissing at forehead is considered as good touch.
Then she told them about bad touch such as if someone hugs you, kiss you and try to touch your private parts then it will be considered as bad touch.
Also she was explaining these things with the indications of that parts of body and practicing again and again so that the children remembered that.
What do we have to sacrifice to raise a good child? |
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Yes dear friends every parent wants to gave a child so that they may raise him right according to their expectations but it is also a fact that the good parents can raised a good child. The reason is that raising a child is very easy but raising a good child is not everyone's cup of tea. To raise a good child you need to sacrifice your time, comfort, money, peace, energy and some of your desires as well. Many of parents do that things will great delight as they find it very rewarding and a great thing. It is also a fact that the way you treat your children, the same they will treat in your old age.
According to me if you want to raise a good child, you must have to prove yourself as good parents because the behavior of parents towards their children means a lot form them. To prove yourself as good parents you have to monitor all your child activities such as, educational activities, sports activities, provide him with good clothes, shoes and all the things which are required for his daily use.
Also you have to keep your eyes open all the time as you may face good and bad things from your child, and all the times you have to keep Patience and face uncertain things carefully. Apart from this you have to keep your ears open all the time because he is a child he can do anything that means he can say bad things to someone so you should always prepare yourself to deal with this situation.
So friends that was my entry about that challenge and I hope that you will like it. Now it is a time to say goodbye to everyone and I want to invite my friends @jyoti-thelight, @dove11, @sahmie, @sualeha, @josepha and @patjewell to take a part in this amazing challenge.
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@abdullahw2 Its crucial to address these issues and your detailed overview of the problems children face is eye opening. Your emphasis on protecting children from social bullying and educating them about good touch and bad touch reflects a genuine concern for their well being. Additionally your thoughts on sacrifices to raise a good child resonate deeply. Best of luck
Thank you so much brother for visiting my post and leaving a beautiful comment . I really appreciate your kind words 😊
I agree with most of your points and trust me these issues are not limited to children but they carry them over to older age. Thanks for inviting me.
Thank you dear Sir for your kind words it means a lot for me 💗
Greetings dear @abdullahw2
Childhood is a perfect time for mental development. How we treat children during this time will affect their lives. Children are more afraid of family neglect and carelessness and family quarrels. Children are sexually abused by close people which makes their life miserable.
Parents should take care of children carefully. If we want to develop children as good people, we need to create a good environment. Parents should be friendly with the child.
Good luck to you.
Yes dear bro when all these things such as domestic conflicts are present in a house and these things done between and in front of children they puts many negative impacts on their mental health. That is why we should avoid doing that. Thanks a lot for a lovely comment 😊
Greetings friend,
Being a good parent means making sacrifices and being involved in your child's life. It's not easy, but it's worth it. Treat your child well now, and they'll treat you well later. Keep an eye on their activities, be patient, and be prepared for anything they might say or do. It's all about being the best parent you can be.
Yes indeed becoming a good parents need a lot of things and the consistency is more important in that aspect. I'm very happy to read your beautiful comment. Thanks bro for giving your precious time to my post. Good luck 🤞
Hello friend and best regards. it has become very important to teach our children about good touch and bad touch. The reason is that now a days the ratio of teen girls rapes is increasing day by day especially in asian countries so I think it should be done in schools, homes and through Social media so that every teen girl will be we aware of good and bad touch. Success
Absolutely Yes 💯 teaching our children about good and bad touch is super important so that they will understand the things very easily. By the way thanks for commenting 😀
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Thanks for commenting dear but har ksi ki post py same comment krna allow nai ha.