Greetings @josevas217, I am a person who believes that the word has power, I mean if you express to someone how good they can perform in an area they will end up doing excellent, while if you tell them the opposite we already know what the result will be. Sometimes we react on impulse and we get carried away by the euphoria of the moment and we end up saying things we did not mean, that is why the word of God says "For this reason, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger". James 1:19. I believe that if we would encourage this in our lives we would avoid many future problems. Happy weekend to you too