Life Issues With Ore Debby ■ 23 ~ CAN YOU CHANGE THE SITUATION?

Hello beautiful. Hope your day has been awesome. Sometime ago someone asked me a question, “how do you manage to be calm when everyone else is panicking?”

My reply was simple, "If I panic, will it change the situation?”

If I cannot change it by worrying then, I will not worry about it. That has been my rule in every situation.

Have you ever discussed a particular dream or plan with a friend and some group of friends and they laugh at you and tell you to stop dreaming?

We all have experienced that one moment,did you back down and change your mind after of you pushed on? If you pushed on Bravo! But if you changed your mind the it's time to change that mindset.

Don't ever let people determine how far you can go, don't let be limit you, only you can see and achieve your dreams. People will always try to project themselves on you,they see the world as small and what they intend to achieve as small so they try to project same on you.

It's okay to share your dreams to people, through that you can get words of encouragement and sponsorship too but if you ever find yourself in a room where your dreams seem to be too big then walk out of that room.

Remember that as there is life there is hope,many circumstances might be fighting against your dreams it might seem like time is gone past but remember that even at old age people still achieve their dreams.

Do not let the world decide who you can be or tell you that you are not good enough,you are you,you are big and you can achieve all your dreams as far as you are alive.

Whenever you are confronted with a situation which seems to throw you off balance, your first approach should be to strategize.

Ask: “How can I make things better?”

Once you have a strategy, you are half way to getting solutions to your problem, and if the strategy does not yield the results you desire, re-strategize.

Worrying about your predicament will not change it. Rather, you create health problems for yourself like high blood pressure.

If you cannot change the situation by worrying, then do not worry at all.