Attachment styles

Afraid of partner? Do you respect? Or do not care about him? If you want to know the level of relationship with your partner, you need to know about being attached to each other. Those in secure attachment relationships generally feel comfortable being close to their partner, expressing any needs and communication without hesitation. Secure people are usually loving and sincere, generally trusting their partner without fear. Usually people in this type of relationship are happy.

Couples who are anxious about each other usually suffer from a hunger for intimacy and closeness. They suffer from anxiety, frequently checking to see if their partner wants to be with them. When they feel threatened, they become anxious and defiant. For example, if the attention of the partner seems less, he does various things to make him jealous or threatens to leave. Although such behavior actually involves attempts to re-establish contact in the relationship.

Those in whom such matters operate sacrifice their freedom in coming closer. As a result, if someone wants to have his company or want to get closer to him, he closes himself. It's not that they don't want to be in a relationship, but they feel kind of obsessed or drunk when it comes to approaching. As the saying goes - love conquers all - if someone loves you deeply, he will try his best to be with you. But that is not true at all. Someone may love you very much, but will behave differently because of their 'attachment style'.

Some may have one of these very mildly, while others may have it severely. Also, the attachment style can vary according to the relationship style of each person. One may act 'safe' with their partner - while others may be anxious about colleagues. An 'attachment style' like anxious, fearful and avoidant may seem like he has a problem - but that's not true. Again, it is not true that all anxious people are needy and avoidant people are narcissists.