HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE|Review By Moohsin|Part-2| Dale Carnegie ---- 29-Sep-2020|

in Project HOPE4 years ago (edited)

Hello everyone @steemit and @project.hope .I am fine now i was a going through a serious throat infection which restricted to me to do any activity.But now by God's grace i am fine and i hope you all are also fine.
After getting a great response on my part 1 of this review i couldn't stop myself from making part 2 of it.
Let's Start.
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Chapter No 3.

"He Who Can Do This Has The Whole World With Him.He Who Cannot Walks A Lonely Way"

I loved the first paragraph the writer writes which is this

"I OFTEN WENT fishing up in Maine during the summer. Personally I am very fond
of strawberries and cream, but I have found that for some strange reason, fish
prefer worms. So when I went fishing, I didn’t think about what I wanted. I
didn’t bait the hook with strawberries and cream. Rather, I dangled a worm or a
grasshopper in front of the fish and said: ‘Wouldn’t you like to have that?’
Why not use the same common sense when fishing for people?"

What are we supposed to learn from this paragraph although in this paragraph the writer is sharing a moment whe he went to fishing but there is a deep life lesson for us.
The writer is trying to explain us that if you want to win someone's heart or you want to attract someone towards yourself so you'll have to think selflessly,you'll have to think about what the other person you want to attract or leave a good impression prefers...for example "as the writer said he liked starwberries but when he wanted the fish to come to him he offered fish the thing fish prefers not the thing he prefers".

Another example the writer told about the same thing is when after a world war George Lloyd was asked that how he managed to remain in power while the previous 3 has been forgotten by the world.
So his reply was also the same that he had learnt from past to bait the hook according to what the fish wants.He (George lloyd)further said that it would childish if someone only cares what he wants and not what other wants.So basically in order to make friends in this world you've to sacrifice your wishes and give them what other wants.
So in short words this chapter teaches us that we shouldn't think about ourself,if we want to make friends and leave a good impression.

So The Part 1 Of This Book Which Is
"FUNDAMENTAL TECHNIQUES IN HANDLING PEOPLE"
ends here.

The Part 2 Of This Book Is
"SIX WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU"

I wont be starting chapter 1 of this book's part 2 just to make a proper series of review.
But i can give you some important points about what we'll ne discussing this part.
Here in this first we'll be discussing about pure love which means a love which don't expect any work from you in return except love..
We'll see a great example given about dog's love by the writer.
Till then Good Bye..I will be posting the review on part 2 of this chapter soon.

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It has really been a blessed book for me I can't deny the fact. So much one can learn in the book beyond ones imagination

There is a saying that in order to catch a thief you need to think like the thief and that is the point the writer is driving at which is of course very true, in order to get more people associated with us we need to think like them and understand what they want.

Yeah you got it right

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