The Attachments

Have you ever heard the term "Attachment"? It is the interrelationship, it is a very close bond that is generated between two individuals, friends, couple, family, but it can also be with an animal. We have important bonds with our pets and we can see that when some of these small beings pass to another plane, and the family environment is affected, we also see how people become fixated with their pets to the point of putting the pet's welfare before their own and their own family's.

The attachments between people, we live from childhood and in the passage of life, but there are some that we develop in most of our lives as in relationships with couples, many of us turn in an excessive way to a person to start a relationship, not by the fact of losing it, but out of fear in most of the time creates a bond of overprotection or arrope to this person and everything that has to do with it.

Definitely when we develop this behavior it affects us negatively in our daily life, work, family, our rhythm of life, by just letting our energy and time be devoted to be aware of the slightest breath of that person. This type of attachment can be bidirectional, both can develop it and even its end is not at all encouraging, because it gets to the point of literally drowning in the relationship becoming "toxic".

But, can we fix this? Well, of course, at the same moment you realize that the relationship is characterized by this "attachment" you can start to give those spaces, that is, time for each one in the things you used to do without the other person, let time pass, let each one can follow their own rhythm of life, I do not mean that it is independent because if you decided to have a relationship it brings certain changes that adapt to your life, but always, always there must be that space where you create the illusion and the need for the moments of absence of the one you love.

You will see that every day that passes, trust, complicity and love will be transformed into security for both, love is free, love is beautiful so you have to leave those spaces so that the encounters are unique and you can enjoy them in a special way.

See you next time