Divorce

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Divorce

The word divorce is not a new word again because it now very common to hear people used the word divorce just like marriage.

Divorce is the process (because you have to follow some procedure) of putting an end to a marriage or you can say the vow husband and wife make legally. Divorce law is different all round the world but in most country the law court must be involved in the termination of the marriage.

Majorly,the court has the final say on how to distribute the property, who takes care of the child, how much a spouse must bring at a speculated period of time for the upbringing of the child and if they both own a debt together before the disagreement that lead to the divorce the court will decide how the debt will be paid.

but you know that there are two countries in the world that Divorce allow divorce they are

  1. Philippines
  2. vatican

why people go for divorce

  1. not prepared for the marriage ÷ alot of people enter married without proper knowledge, some are even force into the marriage and majority of people enter married for the wrong reason. before we enter any marriage please let thing about it well.
  2. Adultery ÷ this is the major reason a lot of marriage are coming to an end and the major lead cause for divorce. when you are married please stay faithful to your spouse no spouse no matter the reason want to be cheated on.
  3. Domestic violence ÷ why we say domestic violence we mean in both side some people thing only the woman can be domestically violated but no both the man and the woman can be violated take care of your spouse don't beat or maltreat them treat them like and egg show them all the love you have for them.
  4. Addiction and workaholism ÷ don't allow anything take the place of your spouse in your life always put them as your number one priority when you are involved in a thing and they are always complaining please avoid such thing if not for anything for the love you have for them and for the fact that you want that marriage to work.
  5. lack of intimacy ÷ always try and be involved in the daily activities of your spouse and never denial them sex for no reason as long as it is okay medically.

In conclusion

Always remember that no marriage is easy it required hardwork and dedication from both side.

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Hi @loveth01

"Always remember that no marriage is easy, it took hard work and dedication from both sides", correct I believe the circumstances and upbringing that each member of the marriage brings from their nuclear family will positively or negatively impact a marriage relationship.

Best regards, be well.

Yes, individual upbringing will also determine the way they see marriage and how they feel it should be run.

The world seems to have everything at hand and in an easy way, to do things without thinking even in those decisions that are usually transcendental for any person, such as marriage.
What you say about the reasons obviously the one that for me has more weight, is the one where the bride and groom have no idea of what they really want to do.
Thank you for your contribution

Yes some just get married because all their freinds are getting married and some just because their mom is disturbing them to settle down.

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