Greetings friend, certainly we all make plans, and we believe that it only depends on us that they come true, but the reality is that our plans must be flexible, because although it depends on us to achieve them, the context in which they are greatly influences the way to achieve them, as well as our maturity, when we overcome a stage sometimes we realize that that was not what really suited us or we learn that it is better to go another way to achieve the same goal, I think what happens to us when we make plans is that we forget to include uncertainty and make them more flexible so as not to get frustrated in their achievement.