Accepting mistake you made really have a special impact in our lives and moving on and correcting the mistake in order not to repeat it, is another thing, if you hurt yourself trying to please others then you are making a big mistake you alone will regret, For you to accomplish what you want or if you are the type that pleases others before and it's really affecting you alot and you try to change definitely you will have to hurt them and is not like you intentionally wanted to but is because you are changing and it will hurt them in one way or other.

Thank you.