Why Many People Struggle With Bitterness
There is this popular saying that trust takes a whole long time to actually build but when it is destroyed, it is always quite difficult to build it back. I must really say that is actually true and we must always make sure that most of the time, that is actually how things are really.
I have seen people and even myself in that shoe whereby it becomes so difficult to let go of some bitter things some people have done for me and even though one wants to actually complain about why it is happening like that, I can't just find the reason to actually complain and that is the reason.
There are quite several times that we let our past tie us down of something which should not actually be so. Yes we might have committed some actions or probably some people might have really wronged us and that actually got us so so angry, I am here to tell you that is not really the end of the world. If only we can remain positive, there is quite so much we can still change beyond what we can imagine.
Yes probably some people shows us some negative behaviour and that has really build up some strong bitterness in us and we are or might be finding it hard to forgive them and let go, I am actually here to tell you that it is quite possible for us to forgive and forget if only we can really train our mind to do so.
You should always train yourself to forgive and forget no matter what anyone might have done to you. Now don't really get me angry, it can really be quite difficult for us to actually let go but that does not mean it is impossible. We really need to train our mind to do so and how we can train our mind to do so is by actually making sure that we forgive and let go no matter what anyone has done to us.
The more you stay in bitterness, I am here to tell you that the more it will definitely becomes so much difficult for you to let go of it actually. Things are really difficult to let go when it enters our heart or deals with our emotions and that's why we must be very careful of what enters our emotions. One of the things we must not let to enter our emotions is bitterness.