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RE: I don't know what to say
It's ok for people to have an emotional rant. Not everything needs to be cross analysed. You should try it some time. I guess emotional awareness is not one of your skills.
It's ok for people to have an emotional rant. Not everything needs to be cross analysed. You should try it some time. I guess emotional awareness is not one of your skills.
It doesn't need to be.
But if you're going to have an emotional rant in which you raise questions, it's probably good to listen to the answer to those questions no matter how you feel about them. Putting feeling before thinking is how you get into these situations.
You can and have done better. This is just me pointing that out and reminding you, and also pointing out that there are people who not only expect better but know you can do better.
Not everything that makes you feel good is good for you and not everything that makes you feel bad is bad for you.
Do better? Like wtf. Do you think you are my school teacher or something.
I don't know. Do you need one? When people let their emotions get ahead of their reason, especially when it involves their business, they often need someone to point out that they're falling down on the job.
You are the one who has publicly claimed that emotional upset and disturbance is getting in the way of your chosen occupation. You are the one who has stated on more than one occasion that your business is important to you. You are the one who is saying all the stuff in the most public format possible, and a context which is extremely unlikely to ever go away. You are the one who is explicitly referred to your recent statements as "an emotional rant." And you were the one who appears to continue to be emotionally wrapped up in it.
Seems like someone should say something which isn't just going to feed your fire of being tied up in emotionalism.
Maybe you need someone to take you to school.
You have every opportunity in the world – and at this point, that's pretty literal, considering that your job and occupation is entirely focused on things that you and the people interested in consuming your product do in physical isolation via Internet intermediary. This is one of the best opportunities you are going to see come along in decades. People are concerned, they want to have tools that they can use to understand the financial situations that they are in, and you are in a position to not only fall back on the library of media you've produced but to speak right to the oncoming need.
But instead – you're having an emotional rant about stuff you can't affect and ignoring everything that you can affect to the point of paralysis in actually getting anything done.
You tell me. Do you need a schoolteacher? Do you think what you're doing is helpful to you or anyone else? Does it convey what you want people to know about you?
I'm pretty comfortable with what I'm doing. You are not if we take you at your word.
I'm assuming that you can "do better." I've seen you "do better." And now I'm admonishing you to "do better."
An excellent counter question would be "why do you care?" A very excellent question. My reply would be "why should I care?" And formulating the response to that is the sort of thing that should give you pause, because if I care enough to actually tell you things, that's probably a good sign. It's the people that don't care enough to challenge you that you should be worried about right now.
The schoolteacher would go a long way.
it's not always business and my personal steem account is not affiliated or connected to my business in any way. And yes, I am capitalizing on the current situation and will do well from it, but that does not cut off the emotions and bonds I have made on steem. You are a smart cookie, but when emotional intelligence is missing, being smart can be rather lonely.