I think there is more than one way back. I don't know how well someone can see or predict that path. Just make the move I guess. It takes sincerity, humility, a better approach of course. Then there's the environment (everyone else).
Balanced consideration, a little patience? ..willingness to take some risks risk shows strength and intelligence imo. Not very calculating. It's more about good nature and possibility.
Things that tend to be lacking in the attention economy.
Humanity is complex and community dynamics add more layers, which is why it is the responsibility of individuals to consider this for themselves.