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Today I'll share some tips or you can say reminder to be a good parent. I often see my sister scold her daughter and at that moment I try to make her realize that she is doing wrong to her daughter but you may wonder that my sister is a teacher and she already had a training on being a good parent. So we should keep reminding parents that how they should treat children and what they shouldn't do.

Well its true that kids are sometimes unmanageable and we get fed up but if we become kid with kids for a while instead getting fed up then it could works. Every children is unique and before treating a child we as a parent need to read or understand the psychology of our children. Let's talk about common mistakes parents do for their kids.

Common Mistakes By Parents:

We all made mistake so why not from now bring a good change in our nature as parents? All parents expect good child or children but before expecting that they need to know how to be good parents to get good children. A child didn't born as bad, they learn from us and they are mostly reflection of our nature so things we don't like from others better we don't do that too.

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• Comparing your child with other kids:

Mostly found mistake by parents is comparing kids with other kids or his/her other siblings. Many parents found doing this. Life a mum of dad saying to her/his child is that Why you can't do this when other kids/ your siblings can do it ?You never can be good like your sibling, look at her/him how fast he/she is and blah blahs. What do you think? It does work to make your child faster? Your child will be jealous or treat others as competitor if he/she get this kind of bad treatment from you. So from today stop doing this. Stop comparing because every child has potential to do something best so help them to discover the passion that help them to grow up. I will discuss only few points in this blog.

• Don't scold your children in public:

Not only in public better you don't scold if you can afford to show some love and make them understand by saying good words and giving good examples. A child feel really down when you scold them in public so please don't do it to them. If its necessary shut the door and make him/her understand by saying good words.

• Don't discuss family issues or problem when they are under 18 :

Many parents has working stress, family issues, responsibilities and so on. Stress that affect our mind and body, we can't give the same stress to our children. Keep them away from this. Try not to discuss such issues with them until they are 18. Help them to be frugal, help them learning good and bad but better keep them away from stress. Keep your couple issues also away from them.

• Don't Make Them Dependent To Others :

Many parents doesn’t allow their kids to learn things at their early age. Parents think they will learn things in future and now they just need to have rest. Not like that, this way you make your child dependent to others or we can say you make your kids handicapped. Help them learning doing their own work like clean plate of his/her own after eating foods, washing hands of their own. Bring water for parents and little help to each other as much possible.

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How to be good parents:

Spending maximum quality time is the best for your children so please plan for having kids when you can give them quality time from your regular work. Share your responsibilities like mum and dad should have good friendship and share responsibilities equally is good for children. So parents should be helpful to each other and better not to be quarrelsome.

Parents shouldn't blame children for their mistakes better you help them to never repeat the same mistake. Blaming too much has bad impact to children's mind so we need to take care of their mental health too beside taking care of their physical health. Most of the parents are very much conscious to the physical health but found careless to their mental health so this can't be a sign of good parent.

A responsible parent can expect a responsible child in future so find your lacking and fix them asap or else when you will be old you will be treated as you are treating your children today. Be a good human being as the role model to your children. You have no need to be famous in society, be the super start of your child or children and that will be the great lifetime achievement award you will achieve in your old age.

So dear parents, hope these reminders will help you all to be good parents forever. Be good and get the reflection of your good. This is simple so don't make it complex.

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