God can forgive and he is always ready to forgive us no matter what it may be. It might be actually difficult to forgive and forget but that is our expectations. We are meant to always forgive and forget no matter what it may be. We should let it go. I quite understand it might be difficult at times to let go of some people who have actually offended us and bitterness might want to come our way. The truth of the matter is if we can learn the act of forgiveness, our soul will be in a much more better place than it is. Instead we will leave in unity the family and there will be no need too fight and fight over anything and everything. The truth of the matter is we should just let people go. It might actually be difficult but that is what God is expecting us to do to dwell in peace and harmony together. There is so much power in unity if only we can make proper use of it. We might not have seen it but that is just the way it is.