The Craziest but the Most Perfect Wedding of all

Hello to all Steemians all over the world. We women dream to get married one day, right? I do too but I never dreamed how the wedding will go nor did I imagine it being fancy. I have attended many weddings already but it never came to me that I will copy some of their preparations.

If I were asked, I would prefer to have a civil wedding, our parents would be enough to witness the ceremony and maybe some friends who really care. But this was all my parent's will, and they were so dominant during those times.

Before the days of my wedding, I realized that the surprise weddings that I saw in the movies are not true. The couple has to undergo many wedding preparations before being given a marriage certificate to be signed with.

On the day of my wedding, I already had a five-month-old daughter. That day was so crazy because my husband and I had a fight in the morning, the wedding was 2 pm. I even asked him if he was still interested in the marriage because he could still back out, he still has time. but he asked me the same question instead.

Because of that, We did not prepare until our parents told us to, we became okay immediately after the conversation, what a miracle. I did not know what are the things that I would bring, so I went there empty-handed. Good thing my husband as the ring and he put it inside his pocket.

At the venue, I was asked, "where is your veil"? and I said I don't know, I thought you were the one that will bring it.
We then realized it was in the room where I was earlier and I did not see it because it was inside a box.
Its too late to return and get them at that moment so we proceeded with the ceremony without the veil, the cord.

Haha I never knew what the exact preparations are on a wedding after mine happened. My cousin who was an elementary teacher, the oldest among the cousins I had on my father's side was the instant emcee/coordinator. Haha. If you could only imagine what happened there.

We have no music prepared as the background as I walk down the aisle. I don't know, I was so happy that time that I had only a few memories of it, I don't see any other people and things but my husband alone. Good thing that the pastor who held the ceremony had an organ and he sang for us.

Without the cord and the veil, well, the pastor explained that it was just a symbol made in the ceremony that we are one and will never part. The cord is a symbol that we are tied as one, as a family now. Mother-in-law was so prepared that she gave us the ARAS, the symbol that my husband's earnings are mine to spend on all my wants. hehe, joke. All his earnings are for us and because we already had a baby, I would say for the whole family.

Now, Pastor Balanay made us wear the ring and sign the papers. The picture taking took place with the family members and the relatives, also with the sponsors. And in a few moments, the ceremony was done and the reception happened in the same place. Everything went like a blur, and we all went home after we were all feel full of the prepared food.

Too bad these were just the photos that I kept because we cannot contact the friend who promised to take the photos of us in the ceremony, I guess he already deleted it all without even giving a copy to us.

Anyways, it was just a ceremony, but the result of it is very visible that we had a blessed family with a strong bond. Of course, we could not achieve this without the blessing of the Almighty, and I have him to be thankful for of everything that I have now.

Despite the things that we forgot to bring and lack of preparing, It was the perfect wedding of all, I mean why wouldn't it? I was married to the man I love with all my heart.