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Effective communication is the quality that the human being has to share his ideas, thoughts, and knowledge in the most understandable way. It has to see how emotions are understood, the ability to listen and understand the information we receive. However, it is common for people not to communicate effectively because they only know how to use indirect language and do not express their ideas directly. In every aspect of our life we need effective communication both in our employment, home our place of study.

I'm going to talk about this type of communication in the matrimonial field.

The family circle is ideal for communication and the very success of the family depends on it. Communication also requires conversation, dialogue, exchange of ideas and expressions. Although some women outperform men in expressing their feelings, that is not justified for husbands to be silent partners. At home both must strive to keep the lines of communication open, and listen to each other, not using harsh or hurtful words, and in this way conflicts are avoided, when resorting to an indirect language that the only thing that is achieved is to worsen the situation.

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When I talk about keeping the lines of communication open, it is understood that it is the obligation of each one to listen, and strive to notice what has not been said. This requires attention to the person speaking. It is not only necessary to understand the ideas that are expressed but to pay attention to the feelings behind the words spoken in a way that something is said. On many occasions or maybe never the husband does that, and the wife may suffer because her husband does not listen to what she says and for her part the wife must listen so as not to draw hasty conclusions.

When there is no effective communication, the message you want to convey is difficult to understand, sometimes it happens that these indifferences are subtle and have nothing to do with the tone of voice, or with what is said through verbal language, but with the way they are expressed, many times they are expressed with harsh words, and hurtful. To achieve effective communication, we must analyze the way we express ourselves and remedy it, this will make us fence well in our marriage relationship.

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