Steemit Engagement Challenge S3:W4 - Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep by @Shohana1

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Greetings Everyone,

This topic I have found really very interesting so here I come to attend the contest. There are so many things I would love to change in me and there are so many things I love in me. But things I really want to change desperately and things I really like in me will be my discussion point for this blog. I hope you all going to enjoy reading and you may get a reminder from this post to change something in you or love something about you.

Self judgement is the best and here we have chances to improve our personality and lifestyle. When we need to change something we surely work on that and this work should be unstoppable which means never give up trying a good practice and never forget to appreciate yourself for being good at something.

Three things I'd change about myself:

Well, my cover of this post saying it all but I would love to discuss it in details. We as human being having good and bad sides in our character. No one here is hundred percent good and no one is hundred percent bad. Some bad acts are not intentional like Anger, we become angry sometimes when we shouldn't be and when we get angry we definitely become a loser.

So my first weakness in character is Anger which I want to change or take it under control desperately. The second thing is Talkativeness which also need to be change to avoid troubles in life. And the third one is Impatience which need to be change as well.

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• Anger: Anger ruin us and the person who gets angry mostly bring troubles in life and destroy good relationship with others. The more we can control anger the more we can live with peace. And honestly I become angry very fast and react on things and sometimes shout too and I want to have control over my anger. I've already experience troubles in life for being an angry person and our anger doesn't bring anything good for us.

• Talkativeness: I'm a chatterbox who always chit chat and waste time doing blah blahs. I want to change this quality as well. Talk less and stay safe from troubles. The more we talk the more we spoil our image to others. A talkative person never consider as a wise person and I would like to change this bad quality in me and I think I'm almost successful in it.

• Impatience: I always find myself impatient and ask for things instantly. I do things instantly as a result there are many errors and mistake can be found in my work. So I want to have more patience to deal with toxic people around me, also to do no mistake when working. I want to have control in my impatient nature that always proves bad for me. We should take time for something good or positive and when we do hurry we mostly spoil things and it takes more time to recover.

Three things I'd keep:

There are three things I love in me or would love to keep these qualities in me. Amongst all my first priority is my Self-respect that I never going to compromise. At the end if I can see the mirror and I feel good, that means I have done nothing wrong to anyone and that help me to sleep peacefully at night and hold my self-respect tight.

Second thing I would love to have is strength or the quality of strongness and this strength could be mental and physical both. And the 3rd quality I would love to keep, should be Self-reliant and this is my favorite quality that help me to love myself and encourage me to take care of myself.

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• Self-respectful: To live a beautiful and decent life I think have self-respect is a must. I know how I'm as a person and I should have a good personality that help me to hold my self-respect all the way in my life. I love myself and I also care about people who cares about me and if anyone try to ignore me or try to underestimate me, I leave the person and prefer to step back. I don't force anyone to be in my life and I do not compromise with my self-respect. If you care about me, you deserve my care and love and I will surely give you that.

• Strongness: Having mental and physical strength is important to live a good life. I find myself strong when things going wrong in my life and I always deal with problems wisely and resolve them asap. I'm emotional but at the same time I'm strong when life is not in my favor. I am also strong physically and eat good food that help me to keep sound health and sound mind.

• Self-reliant: I'm an independent person since my school days and I like my freedom so I did small jobs like teaching kids and freelancing to be self employed and my educational expenses were my own responsibility that I've done perfectly by the grace of Almighty Allah. And I love being self-reliant and never borrowed a single penny from others thankfully. I'm blessed for having no debt and I earn money to bear my expenses since 2008 and now also bearing family expenses. I love this quality in me. I will keep it because it help me having more confidence and self-respect.

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