I sincerely tap from the way you presented this post. Drinking alcohol doesn't make you a bad person or an alcoholism. Drinking or consuming it in excess does and can be very detrimental as you've said. The experience you cited above is quite obvious and seen in most cases. People who consume excessively end up becoming drunk, having anger issues and the likes of them. Thanks for sharing your own view.
I'll love to ask, what if your husband indulge into drinking alcohol with his friends moderately but on a weekly basis? What would you do?