Steemit Engagement Challenge, S9W1 : Women Are Always Right!
Hello everyone,it’s another great week to partake in this awesome community steemladies. Organized contest with an interesting topic for us to discuss tittle “women are always right’’.I will be sharing my own thoughts or fact base inthe the guided questions below for us answer.
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In Most African society Women are always seen as people who can’t contribute in the development of the community or a home. Men see women like people who are short sided and can’t contribute for the betterment of tomorrow. Women are always voiceless when men are talking most especially in cases like Traditional rites,Decision making in most marital homes and society or community development.
According to men,a woman can’t construct an idea that can help.They always feel a man should be in charge of decision making in all aspects. Their voice should heard first while keeping women behind to only listen and affirm wether right or wrong. Thanks to modernization woman are now empowering themselves and are able to fight for their right. Due to this most women voices are been heard by men.
Also, men easily give in women just for the sake of and not because a woman is right.In most marital homes you come to realize that when there is misunderstanding by both parties. Even when a women is not right, the man will always accept the woman to be right to avoid further arguments for peace to reign inthe family.
As a women you have the right to stand for your right and opinion but at the same time no one is perfect it’s always good to listen and accept your wrongs in other to build a better society or a home.
Yes of course as I earlier mentioned no one is perfect as a humanbeing. I don’t see how can someone should always be right all the time either a a woman or a man. There are moments your thought can deceive you and you think that you are right. Your opinion might not fits and I don’t think you can impose on people to accept it.
Some people in life are very funny,once their opinion does not count it be comes a problems because you thing you are ‘’always right”. Neither a man or a woman let wipe away that believe of alway being right.
Women have the right to choose their spouse. I have seen in most cases where a woman is been force to get married to someone out of her wish. Without considering her feelings which is totally wrong.Each and everyone have right choose when it comes to marriage.
Women have right to Education.In most African society there is always that gender base violence where women place is seen to be in the kitchen by most parents. I think there is right education irrespective of the sex.
A Woman have right to choose the number of children she will love to give birth to with the husband. Men at times try’s to impose to the their wives,which is wrong.
I have one of my cousin who got married and is having three children with the husband.She is financially stable than the husband, at one point she was giving the husband pressure to buy a plot.Knownfully well that the husband is not financially stable.
The good thing is that his husband response was alway positive. Assuring the wife he will buy it immediately he has money and he is financially stable. Later, the wife decided to buy a plot without the knowledge of his husband and decided to hide it .As time went on the husband discovered few months the wife has bought a plot with his knowledge and was very angry.
Instead for the wife to amend things by admitting she is wrong she refused.Claiming is her money and she has the right to do anything she want. Later, from there numerous councilors they visited was proven wrong infront of the husband because their civil marriage certificate indicated they signed joined property. The only thing the councilor could do was to advised them to reconcile in other to live in peace and harmony in their marital home. Asking the wife to beg for forgiveness from the husband.
My advice to women and men is that we should not be that type of person I know all.No human being is perfect all the time.Stop being judgmental.
Also, always give a listening ear to other people’s opinions. Don’t force people to accept your own opinion. Your right might be wrong to another person.
Lastly They should be equally right in decision making . Men should not consider women to be voiceless.We can build a better society or a homes women and men are ready to take corrections.
I will love to invite the following people @Josepha @chiabertrand @petface to partake in this awesome contest.
El simple hecho de tomar una posición autoritaria e intransigente ante otro para que aquella persona admita que tú tienes la razón y tu verdad es irrefutable, es un acto de inseguridad que demuestra la necesidad de mantener el control por temor a estar equivocado.
Has hecho un buen abordaje de la temática. Me gustó tu contenido. Gracias por compartir tu opinión.
Thanks dear for engaging in my post .Really your someone opnion should be accepted all the time because you are right.
Ha sido un verdadero placer leer tu buen contenido.
Having the right to chose they partner and acquiring Education is very important to all women as it exposed to a lot of things. Indeed, women are the backbone in they home. Thank you for inviting me and best of luck to you.
Thanks for engaging in my post .You are right women have right to education and majority of men don’t understand at all.Thanks for adding your voice to the voiceless.