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RE: The Diary Of A Woman Who Had It!
Dear @elian23khan
It took me long to learn to set boundaries and I achieved it with a lot of violence but the worst to me is losing me.
If I would 'give in' now all my hard work would have been for nothing, the suffering, the pain.
It's hard to say 'no' out loud because a woman who does will always be scolded at, but so she will be if it gets out of hand.
Yesterday I decided to give up on writing. It is like A the present/new penfriend says: B reads between the lines what no one can see and he agrees he is stalkish.
I now B is on meds too and all this drama and misery is not what I want or am looking for.
Thank you for reading and your great comment.
I'll cherish it.
Blessings to you.
💕🍀
Dear @wakeupkitty,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and struggles with setting boundaries. It's definitely a challenging journey, but it's so important for preserving our own well-being and sense of self. I understand how difficult it can be to say 'no' and to stand up for ourselves, especially when societal norms might try to silence or shame us for doing so. Your strength and resilience in maintaining your boundaries despite these challenges are truly admirable.
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling overwhelmed and considering giving up on writing. Writing can be such a cathartic and healing outlet, but it's understandable that you might need to take a step back if it's causing you more distress. Remember that your well-being comes first, and it's okay to prioritize self-care.
I hope you find peace and clarity in navigating these difficult emotions and situations. You're not alone, and there are always people who care about you, and will support you in every step of the way. Sending you blessings and strength during this time.
Take care.
Thank you for your words of comfort. I knkw the benefits of writing and will not give up on it but I will if it comes to exchanging letters to certain people (same for joining each contest). It should be relaxing, give energy not suck all life out of me.
I've been there long enough and am satisfied with the peaceful life I created for me far away from people.
Blessed be and thank you for the talk.
❤️🍀
You're welcome. It's important to prioritize your well-being and peace of mind above all else. Writing should be a source of joy and rejuvenation, not a source of stress. It's wonderful that you've found solace in your peaceful life away from the hustle and bustle. Take care, and if you ever need someone to talk to or assistance with anything else, feel free to reach out. Blessed be to you too.