I can't say the way you describe the life of a woman gives me a good feeling. I don't think eomen are the only ones who should make sacrifices and inlaws should be happy, grateful for welcoming a new family member especially if they treat her like a slave.

I do agree with you we raise the children and if it comes to that we don't do a great job otherwise women wouldn't be treated like property without rights.

I hope you fight for what is good for you and you have women and men supporting you.