SEC16W3: Raising boys and girls
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Hello Everyone! How are you? I hope all of my friends will be good and all are happy. Today i am going to join the third week of challenges with the community of the ladies, with a great theme regarding the raising of boys and girls, this if we compare it with the decades of our grandparents and our parents has been changing until our times. It is a great contest and am very excited to write on because it is related to myself as well.
Should boys and girls be educated in exactly the same way?
The education that is given at home to sons and daughters will always be the same in terms of values and principles, as well as the same education will be provided equally. I believe that we should all agree on this and they will always be taught. to discern between good and bad. But it will never be the same way and let me explain, they cannot be raised identically since biologically they are not equal, without being outdated and much less going against equality in law, because it is something else, the girl child is educated under the essence of to be a woman and the male child to be a man.
From birth and in the first years of life, infants copy patterns that are in their environment, absorb information and encode it in their brains. When parents from past decades said "boys wear blue and play with cars and girls wear pink and play with dolls," they reinforced that information and it was like I'm coding you with your gender. It is known that a color does not determine the gender of a boy or girl, but by conditioning them to play the opposite of their nature, normalizing all movements and struggles due to an erroneous inclusion of languages, gender diversity and whatever new forms of thoughts that They are introduced in comics, in any type of communicatio
If it is going to influence them and this is where today's parents should not allow it, since a growing boy or girl is in formation. As everything in life will always evolve, we are no longer in the old days, where rigidity in education was who set the tone. Today there are countless laws around the world that protect the family and particularly the little ones, but not being rigid creates bad citizens, which is why the authority figure must be maintained in the parenting process.
Pink for Girls & Blue For Boys, Election!
As I said, a color does not determine anything and today we see men of all ages wearing pink clothing and women of all ages doing the same with the color blue. In this we must be careful because regardless of the color, the garment used must be of its gender.
In particular, I do not accept that my children come to want to include in their education these new trends of men who are women and women who are men, I am the one who explains the situation, I teach them that they do exist and that they must be respected as people. that they are, but that is not natural, since life will continue as a man and a woman. I know it is a somewhat delicate topic, but everyone will educate their children according to their principles. Children (female and male) must be allowed to be children and taught to become good people.
In a world where so many crazy things and aberrations are seen, I have old school tools where I am going to teach my children what is right, to defend themselves when I am not there and it is not about fighting, but to know when I can. There is imminent danger from third parties, I teach them to have fun like children and have their childish worries.
I confront an adult when they want to harm the normal growth of a child and as I say, it is not being against but each person in their position. The girl dresses like a girl and her colors are theirs, she is taught to be independent and strong, preparing for life. The child dresses like a boy and her colors match his, he is taught to be independent and strong, preparing for life.
Friends, Now i would like to invite my friends @suboohi, @aaliarubab, @ashkhan, @drhira for participate in this challenge. I hope my publication is to everyone's liking. They take care of me. Blessings. See you soon.
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SITARAINDARYAS
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It's great to see parents use different parental skills to raise their children in a good way. I wish you luck in the contest!
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In Africa, gender is binary and boys are trained to become men the girls are trained to become women. Besides the local tradition and norms, the constitution of many African countries has no room for anything outside a binary gender.
Informed African women do not ask for equality between the gender because the inequality protects them.
A pregnant woman misbehave and the husband is publicly lashed for her. He was expected to groom his wife well.
Two children get in to trouble and the boy's punishment is doubled because he is expected to know better.
A woman follows her husband's lead because he will face the consequences.
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