**Contest| "The Married and the Single"

I hope everyone is doing very well. I am also very well and healthy, by the grace of Allah. A very beautiful topic has been brought up between us: being single or married has both good and bad sides. Every girl's life goes through the first stages of being single, and after a stage, every girl has to sit on the marriage ladder. So I think the experiences of both of us are very good and bad. Although I am married, I am still trying to highlight my point.

🔻How do you feel about getting married?

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There are some stages in the life of every girl; similarly, when girls grow up, the most important stage for them is marriage. For the girl who grew up with her parents since birth, when she marries and goes to someone else, it is very painful because every parent dreams of having someone in their daughter's life who will take care of her, love her, support her in all her happiness and sorrows, and always stand by her side. Those who find such a life partner are very lucky because not everyone has the same fate. Marriage requires responsibility, love, and care to be sustained. Girls have to go to a completely new environment after getting married and adapt to new people in a new way, which is a bit painful at first, but with time it gets better. This happened to me after marriage, but with time, everything became fine.

🔻 Can you tell us how the starting point of your marriage was and how old you are in your marriage?

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The beginning of my marriage was very different, I was in school, I got married at a very young age, I was 17, my father-in-law came to see me at home, my father requested my mother, my mother and father agreed to the marriage; and I was also married to my parents. When I got married, I had no idea about marriage because I was young. When I went to my in-law's house, I could not adjust at all, but my husband and my in-law's family supported me a lot. To acclimate me to it, and my father-in-law treated me like a friend, took us for walks, went out for dinner together, had a great time, and over time I blended myself into that family, and the rest of my studies and I did the complete thing from my father-in-law's house.

🔻 Did you win him over or he won you? Share with us

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I was having trouble adjusting to many things as I got married at a very young age, but my partner helped me a lot with everything. My partner got married overseas and left after a few months of marriage, but he helped me a lot while I was there. With his family, to adjust me to him, since I was very young, I could not understand many things, so my partner used to explain everything to me. I was impressed with all these uses of my partner. And he won me over. After a girl's marriage, support becomes very important for her because her husband is the only person with whom we can share everything and solve our problems.

🔻Do you ever wish to be single?

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Married life is not limited to only one husband and wife; there are two families, children, Many things are involved and there are many responsibilities, All the responsibility falls more on a girl. So even after getting married, a girl never wants to be single again. I also never want to be single again because in our society, a single woman is still not seen well, she has to endure many kinds of slander and insults; she has to walk with her head down in the society. Our country is still not developed enough to accept a single woman; they can't do anything independently, so I never want to be single again after seeing these things in society.

I would like to invite my friends @goodybest @ridwant @dove11 @radjasalman to participate in this contest

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