SEC16W3: Raising boys and girls

Indeed, the boy has a strong soul, he sticks to his own opinions, but he is always optimistic in everything, whether in terms of problems or other aspects. The way boys raise boys is very different from girls, but their parents' love for both remains the same. what differentiates the way they are educated, for example, if a boy has just come home from school, a mother will definitely ask him how he was at school, how is his homework ready or not or blah blah blah, for example, we ask a lot of questions.

If possible, they want to shout like this, "Mom, please be quiet for a moment, I'm tired." but they keep it to themselves, sometimes even if the boys are tired and tired, then we come and ask a lot of questions, which definitely makes them uncomfortable, and sometimes they don't even answer a single thing that we asked them.

my son is 2 years old

why is that because the brain system of boys' brains is different from the system of girls' brains, so if a boy is tired, let him be alone, later if he wants to tell a long story, he will tell it himself, no need for us to ask him.

The way to talk to boys is also very different, perhaps in terms of advice, if a mother wants to advise her son, they should speak softly, so that the son can easily understand that a mother's love for him will last forever. Even though he is an adult, he still looks like a little baby sleeping in his mother's arms.

Meanwhile, the way to educate girls or how to raise them is that what differentiates girls is that they have their own character, girls are soft and obedient and their hearts are very fragile.

I was with my daughter when she was 4 years old

even the smallest thing, if he experienced it himself, his tears would easily fall because his heart is very soft. If we give advice to girls, look into their eyes, then talk heart to heart, then hug them with a warm hug, it will definitely make it easier for them to accept advice from us, especially their parents.

I once heard the saying "A son belongs to his mother while a daughter is her father's first love."
because I am a mother so I really understand the attitudes, behavior and personalities of my children, they are very different from everything in terms of physical and other aspects.

I was with my daughter when she was 2 years old

but my affection for them remains the same, because they are the most beautiful treasure for me that I must look after and educate as best as I can. because what we plant today, one day we will also reap the results. Likewise with our children, if we educate them well, they will definitely repay their parents for their kindness.

So here's my entry, I hope it's useful for all my friends, greetings from me @nurfiana.

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