SEC13 WK3 "Is drama only for women or is it also for men?"

Acting drama is part of life. It is a way of spicing things up and making everyone laugh when you go down memory lane. Children are specialist on that. Though we call their own tantrums and disturbance, yet that is there own way of playing their own drama.

From this engagement topic of this community, we will see whether adults do so, more especially if it is only women that does so.

Are you dramatic by nature? Yes, no, or maybe? Why?

Yes, I am dramatic in some cases. The reason is because I am the last child of my family and everyone wants to know how I am fairing. My mother pampered me a lot the little time I was with her and she won't let anything happen to me. When I am also with someone who really cares about me, I like to be a bit dramatic to attract more attention. Don't blame me at all. That is my nature but I still try to be strong when I notice that no one cares, and when I know I have to care for others like my kids and hubby. If I also notice that someone more dramatic is present, I try hard to bottle mine.

In fact, I learn to be able to bear my pain when I gave birth and when I lost my mother. I understood that I need to be strong to be able to survive.

Do you think your opposite sex is more dramatic than yours? Why?

Hahahaha, I can't stop laughing out loud! In deed, he is more dramatic than I am. He bahaves like a baby boy. After all the children head is still what we all are carrying.

I think he was also pampered a lot by his parents. When he is sick, he lets everyone know about it even his parents as old as he is.

When he has a little cut, he will shout on top of his head. But trust women which I am part of. When we cook in the kitchen, we are hurt severally by hot oil, knife, or any other thing, we (I) try to bear it.

When you get sick, do you tell everybody, or do you keep it to yourself? Why?

I tell everyone around me that I am sick. I don't know how to hide it because even my face will show it. I don't keep it to myself because I really desire to get healed easily and the encouragement and the sorry I get helps me to cope. I don't know how to hide my sickness because it do weigh me down a lot. I don't get sick too often and so when I do, it tells on me and I can't deny it when asked. I love the sympathy and the attention especially when someone who really cares is around me

Are you one of those who adds some drama to the situation, or do you tell things as they really happen?

Well, I tell exactly how I am feeling. I do not add sugar and salt to it as it were. I like saying my mind as it is happening right there. I will tell you my mind without recourse to whatever you think about what I saying.

Oh yea, I can sometimes be dramatic depending on who is around and the situation at hand.

What drama have you created in life or in public? Tell us all about it.

When I was pregnant, I can vividly remember one drama that I acted though not of my own making but due to the pregnancy.

I was fun of asking for what was not available at home at any moment. Sometimes I will just want to go out to walk about, or just sleep, or just seat down to watch movies even when I have things to do at home and I will leave those chores to remain unattended to until my husband returns. Of course he is the understanding type, he will just assist me with them even when he is tired.

I will also have one complain or the other of how I was feeling. I don't know if it is laziness or just how a pregnant woman feels but all I know is that I just don't feel like doing anything but just to behave like a kid, hahahaha, not my fault though.

Another drama I acted was when I was living with our first son, since he was a police officer, he likes to beat me when I do something wrong. But I also learned his weak point. After beating me, he will also feel sorry for me and wants to make me feel fine. At that point, I will become dramatic by telling him that I am having headache and then feel as if I am in pain. He will feel sorry for me and even give me money to go buy drugs for myself. Then I will just go out and use it to buy anything I want for myself and enjoy that night. Case closed. Lols! Not my fault at all, hahaha!

Conclusion

Some people are created to be dramatic in nature, others are not. However, I view them all as varieties in which adds spice to three life we all have.

I invite@okere-blessing @graceleon and @drhira to join in this contest. I wish you all success!