Contest| "The Married And The Single"

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Good day my beautiful steemians across the globe, happy new week to you all, I believe your day is going on smoothly. Your girl @missyleo is here to share her point on this amazing contest organized by @ninapenda, kudos to you ma'am for always bringing up a good and amazing topics for us.

What do you enjoy most during this Singlehood time?

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Singlehood is not a sin or a crime, no matter the angle you may view it. For me I enjoy my alone time so well, I enjoyed going out to functions like, seminars, workshops and even involved in some training that will add up to my IQ.

I also enjoy a lot of things about my single hood because I am able to focus on my goals and also invest my time in doing meaningful things to my life without anyone try to stop me. I also enjoy my single hood by hanging out with my friends, we engaged in meaningful conversation, I do all this without anyone dictating for me what to do.

Do you think being single limits someone from big things in life

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This question has two answers from me, Yes & No

• Yes, being single can not limit any one from being big in life. You can utilize your Singlehood by developing yourself, learn any skills you have passion for. Being single, you can decide to do whatsoever you feel like doing at any time you want to without anyone stopping you or controlling your movement because of one reason or the other.

• No, when you are single you can be limited from achieving something big or important in life due to some of these factors:

✓ As a single lady and unfortunately you have a child out of wedlock and you are left alone to carter for your baby and yourself, now that's where the limitations comes, because your dreams of becoming someone big in life will be unfilled.

✓ As a single lady you will be faced with family issue, for example, there's this friend of mine that lost her father and because she and her siblings are females so their uncles which is her father's brother decided to share her father's property without given them a dim just because they are not married, that it's only when they are married before the family will recognized them as a full woman. So scenario like that post as a limit for a single lady to achieve big thing in life.

How you ever wish to be married?

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That's always my earnest desire to be married to my soulmate, this desire and urge always come mostly when attend functions like wedding ceremony and also see young couples in the church with their baby or in an eateries being so romantic to each other. Even in my deepest thoughts, I will be imagining how I will be with my life partner and with our two kids.

As a young single person, when you fall in love, the next feeling you have inside of you is to get married and live in peace and harmony with your partner.

So far, have you learned any lesson from Singlehood?

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I have learned a lot of lessons from this my singlehood and I will share them with you.

✓ I have learned and acquire some skills that will help me in my career path in life.

✓ I have learned to love myself, the woman I've grown into and not to let anyone look down on me as a single lady.

✓ I have learned that as a person you have to forgive yourself first before you will be able to forgive others, and that will make you heal faster from every hurt you might feel inside.

✓ I have learned how to love everyone around me and share with them even with the little I have, because the word says Givers never lacks, that's why I can never lack anything in life as long as my God liveth.

✓ I have learned to accept disappointment even from a closest friend or a family member, because no one is to be trusted again in this life.

Conclusion

To be single is not a crime like I said earlier, so let the society not despised us or tagged us as a bad person, because we are perfect as we are. Singlehood is the most important state of human development and to be single is to be useful.

I'm inviting my friends @tripple-e, @megareigns and @pandora to take part in this.