Steemit Engagement Challenge, S9W5: "If I Were Given A Chance To Be Reborn..."

Hello all my steemit friends in Steem For Ladies community, I hope you are always healthy ❤...

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Humans have their own choices, even though it is a destiny that they should live. Being born again is the dream of everyone who hopes to change what they find unsatisfactory and want to achieve better things, and more success. But will that guarantee that we won't have any obstacles and maybe we will have even more severe obstacles than now?

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1. If you could change that ONE thing by being reborn, what would it be and why?

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This is not possible right? I've lived for more than 30 years and actually there are still many things that I haven't accomplished well. I am reminded again that opportunities always come, but time has determined and we cannot possibly repeat time even one second from now.

If I were born again then I would choose an academic major in the arts section. I love and enjoy art, but when I was in college, I only had the opportunity to take majors that were only available in my area because of my economic limitations. Art major is only in the Faculty which is very far away, it is at 823 km from my house. All these considerations made my parents conclude that it would be better for me to study at a faculty in the area, and in the end I chose to major in English.

However art is what I like until now, but if I am given the opportunity to continue my education (S2), then I will choose art. But it would be nice if we take the same major between S1 and S2. I want to not only understand but also understand art well in my life.

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1. If you were given a second chance to be born, would you choose to be a man or a woman? Tell us why

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Woman. I will still be a girl. I am enjoying my current role and it adds to my enjoyment and gratitude in life. I'm not a physically strong woman so if I were a man I probably wouldn't be able to do what men do (according to what I've seen so far). I see how my father, brother and also my husband work and continue to do their best.

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I am a wife and mother of two small children. I really enjoyed this role. I'm learning a lot and I just want to get better. Women may consider feelings more but men are more logical. I just want to be more grateful and try to be myself as a woman so that I can set a good example for my children, that whatever their destiny is, they must live it wholeheartedly and be grateful.

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1. What do you think about transgender changing their destiny? (Male to female/vice versa)

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Actually, changing the fate that has been given is wrong. God created us for a predetermined reason. We were created according to our abilities and we should be grateful for whoever we are and our obligation to continue to do the best for our future in this world and the hereafter.

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Apart from all that, humans have choices and those who choose this decision also have reasons why they do this. Most of them said they felt trapped (a female soul in a male body or vice versa) so they worked up the courage to make themselves comfortable with the situation.

Currently, the law has also protected them with the article that they are also ordinary people. They want to be respected, seen, and also be able to move around like ordinary people who are free. It's just that in my religion it's not allowed, but it's also not permissible to oppress or do evil to those who do this.

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1. Knowing what you know now, if you had to register a Steemit account, would you use your real identity or make up an identity? why?

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If you don't know then you don't love, that's the saying. Real accounts are the best. Maybe the name is not important in steemit, anyone is free to register their account name with any name, but is the account real? I love it when someone says my real name. The name is like a prayer. And I'm sure anyone who has their real account will be much appreciated and respected.

^{my account @liasteem}

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The original account doesn't change anything, I like it when they meet me outside, they also call me by that name (liasteem). This name is my original nickname (lia) and steem is a form of prayer so that I can survive, fight, and also love steemit and be proud to be a part of it.

It's better to be yourself, no provocation, or people who will ask questions and offend the originality of our work here. We will be freer and more flexible dalam acting. And if I repeat the steemit list, I will still register with my real name.

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Until here, my participation in the Steemit Engagement Challenge S9W5 at Steem For Ladies Community.
I would like to invite my friends to participate in this Steemit Engagement Challenge, @petface @amryksr @dexsyluz @mariam.dariam @anasuleidy .

^{Thank you also for supporting me at every opportunity}

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