SEC19 W1: "This is my style"

I love old souls. Finding them is like finding a needle in a haystack. Their presence in my life is an evidence to the depth of wisdom accumulated over many lifetimes. I've always felt attracted to people who have this timeless quality, and here's why.

Since I first met these old souls, I have been fascinated by their ability to connect on a level that goes beyond the surface. They don't just listen; they listen intently, with a focus that makes you feel truly seen and understood.

A conversation with them is not just exchanging words but rather sharing a part of my soul. I've always wanted this deep connection for a long time, and I remember how hard it was to find an old soul among the engaging onslaught of social media. In a reality that makes most people obsessed with likes, followers, virality, the old souls remind me of what is truly valuable.

They seek validation not from their cyber audience but from the authenticity of their connections. Old souls value real-world discussions over empty digital exchanges. Their lives are not dictated by trends or the need to present a curated image to the world. They live with persistent purpose and integrity instead.

One of the most beautiful aspects of loving an old soul is their patience and empath. They understand that true connections take time to build and are willing to invest the effort necessary to maintain them. I admire their ability to see things from different perspectives and approach conflict with calm thinking. Arguments are not about winning, but about understanding each other better, and it strengthens our bonds.

Old souls have a way of making the simplest moments feel extraordinary. This type of romance rooted in genuine care and affection is something I really appreciate as a human being.

What stands out most about old souls is their unshakable loyalty. When they choose to be with you they do so with the intention of a lifelong partnership. Their loyalty is not just a promise but a very deep part of who they are. I never have to worry about their loyalty because the love they build goes beyond physical and materialistic values.

Another reason I love old souls is, they are comfortable being alone! They don't need constant validation or mentoring to feel complete. Their independence is very attractive to me. That means when they choose to spend time with you, it's because they really want to, not because they need to fill a void.

Old souls believe in the process of life in a pleasant way. They believe that everything happens for a reason and that the universe will bring the right person into your life at the right time. This belief in the journey, rather than rushing towards the destination, has taught me to cherish every moment and trust that everything will happen as it is supposed to. Que sera sera, whatever will be, will be.

However, the love I have for the old souls goes beyond a romantic relationship. Platonic love with an old soul is just as deep and fulfilling. I have several guy friends who are old souls, and our relationships prove that platonic connections can be just as wonderful. Our friendship is built on respect, understanding, and most importantly, wisdom. Discussion and ideas is what keeps me alive.

With them I realized the value of living in the moment. They have an uncanny ability to appreciate the moment, finding beauty in the simplest things. This awareness is contagious and has taught me to slow down as well as enjoy the moment rather than constantly worrying about the future or getting stuck in the past.

I genuinely invite @alee75 @asiahaiss to share your story in this contest. I'm sure you both have interesting insights to share regarding "this is my style"