Contest | "Nowadays love is a fashion or a feeling?"**
Introduction
Hi great steemians
It's my pleasure to participate in this contest organised by steem for Ladies.
Our society has faced so much menace caused by student love relationship. It has become a fashion for a boy and girl to be in a love relationship.
Most times, some of these girls don't have proper understanding of what they are doing until they grow up to regret it.
It has become as bad as even seeing primary school pupils having boyfriends and girlfriends.
As a teacher, i once got a report of a primary 3 pupil coming to report to me how a primary 5 pupil is asking her to become her girlfriend and how he wants to kiss her and other things. I was so shocked that this things has also found it's place even in primary school.
As a teens coach, I have interviewed many young girls in secondary schools and the reports i get were overwhelming. One went ahead to tell me how he has been sleeping for a boy who is supposedly in secondary school too and this has led to several abortions.
This children can't even cope in schools anymore because their minds are no longer stable to understand what the teacher is doing.
Most of them end up not having any good future. For instance, if a girl whose parents so much wants to train in high institution get pregnant in secondary school, it will be so shameful and discouraging for their parents to train such child.
❤️ Is love at this age true? Is there any future for love made at this age ?
Love at this stage is not true. It is only encompassed by lust. The young minds only want to satisfy their sexual desires but no good motive behind. This love is filled up with pretense just to appease one other.
❤️ What is the belief in this?
Most people who end up in this relationship did it because their friends are into it. They just want to belong and do what others are doing. It is never approved by the society. The society believes it's wrong at this stage.
❤️ Give some suggestions to test true love?
I will draw my definition of love from the Joly Bible in I Corinthians 13. Love is kind, love is patient, love does not rejoice in the wrong.
Love is patient. True love is not about lust. What it seeks first is not your body but how to bring out best from one another.
True love is sacrificial, it forgives and accommodates. True love doesn't do things in a wrong way but seeks the right way all times.
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I invite @ruthjoe @okere-blessing and @chiomzy810 to join this contest
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