My Entry "Women in the Spotlight" ✨ #08

daprado1999 (69)in Steem For Ladies • 4 hours ago (edited)

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Hello friends and welcome to this beautiful contest as organised by @aviral123 in this great community. I do hope you enjoy my exciting article, most important these are my thoughts on this article. May the best contestant win the challenge.

^{✨Women are the biggest enemies of women, to what extent do you agree with this statement}

Women are interesting people to be around. A big shout out to all the women in the house. Its really a great theme to talk about. Women are naturally great people who love to be in charge of their special safe space. A woman would always want to be respected and given an atom of authority in a given space.

Practically, speaking during my childhood days, my mother and sister were a special duo up until my sister got into her adolescent age. She got into a culinary school and became a great cook. She would always criticize mum's food, it got mum pissed off and my sister did it unapologetically. She stressed that it was the right thing and at most cases she rejected the food. She cooked for the family on one occasion and that was when the verdict was passed.

Moreso, it got mum so jealous that she took it personal with little sister. It got so serious that mum sternly warned her to stop cooking with her ingredients! I sniff jealousy haha.. Sister eventually left the house and rented an apartment few blocks from home and we ordered food from her secretly and smiled at mum when she cooked. This is a great analogy portraying how big enemies women could be to each other no matter the age! Therefore it is a great extent that I agree that women are the biggest enemies with each other.

^{sourcesister cooks so well, mum got jealous!}

^{✨For what reason do women get jealous of each other?}

Women get jealous of each other for a whole lot of reason which I would be sharing with us.

Fight for Supremacy: Women get jealous really during the fight for supremacy, in a team of friends there are fight for a leader among the team, thus others tend to get jealous when others drift to choosing a cheer leader amongst them. This is a major reason for jealousy amongst women.
Personality Difference: Most ladies have inferiority complex or low self esteem, therefore when they see a confident lady they tend to feel jealous of such person due to either the nature of the body jewelries or body deodorant the person wears. They feel their personality being threatened and feel jealous of the threat in their midst.
Protection: Most ladies get jealous to loose precious possession, say their boyfriend, it makes them feel jealous when the guy is talking with another lady or flirting with them. When amongst her friends she tends to be jealous of any of her friends who tries to steal her spotlight in front of the guy. The urge to protect her guy makes her jealous of suspicious moves from friends.

^{sourceboss lady naturally gets ladies jealous!}

^{✨If you know any such woman or have any story related to her, then share it with us}

I know 2 friends working in same hair saloon. They are both my friends. Ngozi had always complained that Sarah her junior colleague never greets her since she came new to the saloon, and she always tend to do things on her own without getting her supervision. She is a confident boss lady. It turns out that the junior colleague Sarah has all the equipment. Ngozi comes to beg her junior colleague for equipment and it pains her so much. Her junior colleague doesn't care and she gets jealous of her personality, claiming that she is too proud.

Interestingly, Sarah tried not to get Ngozi have any confrontation at her best. Ngozi finally needed a favor from Sarah her junior colleague. She asked for a power bank to charge her phone. Sarah denied her the favor and it looked embarrassing. She swore to retaliate and few hours later she dropped hot water on Sarah's foot! Hell was let loose in the saloon, both ladies dragging each other's hair and throwing fist in the air. It was really a fierce day and both ladies sent on suspension.

^{✨Sometimes women gets jealous and harm themselves, to what extent do you agree with this statement}

This is really true sometimes women gets jealous and gets physical with domestic violence. I remember at one occasion in the stylist saloon. Ngozi water to get back at Sarah for disrespecting her as intentionally dropped hot water on her legs. There was a fight and the both ladies got suspended. This illustration buttresses this claim to say that to a great extent I agree that jealousy could lead to harm amongst women in our society. I do hope the best contestant win the contest.

Cc;
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