Steemit Engagement Challenge, S9w3: What is a woman?

Greetings Everyone. I am Asad Fazal from Pakistan. I hope everyone here in Steem For Ladies community are healthy and happy by the grace of Allah Almighty. Today I'm here to participate in Week3 challenge and the topic is very interesting that is "What Is A Woman?". So let's start the topic!

For me Woman means a lot because I have seen my mother sacrifice for us living without my father for years. My father was working in Saudia and he returns to Pakistan after 1 year or sometimes 1 and a half year. My mother sacrifice her young age for us my siblings and me and it means a lot to me. I can't return the debts she has on me even if I do everything she wants without arguing for my entire life.

For me nothing in this world is more precious than my mother and sisters. They have struggled in their lives and I have live seen them so I have HUGGGEEEEE Respect for women.

If we talk about Woman, she is in every form your sister, mother, wife, daughter, sister-in-law, aunty, niece, or girlfriend. She has multiple roles to play during her life including taking care of her family when she is not married and then after marriage she takes care of her husband and children and some also look after her husband's family.

With all this some woman also do jobs and almost all woman do house work only few hire maid for house work. Even the maid is a woman who clean other people's house to earn money and that money is for her children and herself. So on every point, you will see woman and their struggles.

I personally think that without woman this world will be no more. If there will be only men they will destroy this world within few months. Woman are here to keep balance on earth.

You guys may hear that "Women are born from the ribs of Men", that is true but what our Allah Almighty and Hazrat Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said if you try to make her straight just like you try to straight the ribs, they will break. You must love them, take care of them, support them and guard them because they are your precious women.

I advise you to take care of the women, for they are created from a rib and the most crooked portion of the rib is its Upper part; if you try to straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked, so I urge you to take care of women. ~~ [Narrated by Al-Bukhari] Source

The simple answer is Big NO. Women are not only born to be housewives but they are much more than that. They have complete rights to work just like men just there are some hard works that are not possible for women because of their physical strength. Otherwise, my mind is Women are not only housewives but they are just like men and can do anything just like men.

As I said above, women have much more responsibilities than men and without them this world will come to an end. In my country almost 50% of the women are housewives as per the studies but as I am living here, I have seen almost 60% or even more women who are just housewives.

But this is only one side and the other side is rest of the women are doing jobs and are holding top positions in companies. Even in our Parliment, there are 69 reserved seats for women. So it is also true that women empowerment is promoting here but it takes times for everything.

My view here is that Women should cover themselves because when they go out Shatan got hope that he can distract those women easily. So a precious and close to our religion women mostly cover themselves while they go outside for jobs or to do shopping.

As more than 50% of women are housewives in my society so their role is to only take care of house works. Like they wake up early to make breakfast for her children before school and for husband before he leaves for office. After that they clean the house or hire maid to do that. They have multiple roles in the house in the form of sister, mother, wife, daughter, sister-in-law, aunty, niece etc.

In my past, I have seen women were not treated that much good like from 1995 to 2005. But as time passes, women are taking part in the society and they are now treated really well with love and respect. Yes it is also true that there are bad people in all over the world and also in my country but we can't judge all men because of those few bad eggs(people).

Let me explain roles of women one by one:

As a Mother: The role of a mother is to raise her children well. She is responsible for children behaviour and also it depends on the father but not that much as of mother. She is responsible to maintain good environment in the house. For sons, she is first love and for daughter she is best friend.

As a Sister: The role of sister is to build a trust for her brothers so that they talk to her and also take care of her. She is also an emotional support, a loyal best friend, and a role model for her younger siblings.

As a Wife: As a wife, she has multiple roles to do in our society. Most important is to take care of her husband and his needs. Make him happy and also he should do everything for her. She is also responsible for peace in the house and to give birth.

As Job Worker: As women doing job in our society, she is responsible to orgainze the work as per the requirements of the company. She has to fulfill her responsibilities and tasks given to her during hiring process. She also motivates young internees and other women to come out and build their career.

The most important women in my life are my mother and sisters. As I am not married yet so I cant add my wife but later she will also be in this list. Why I choose mother as most important because I love her so much. She give birth to me after bearing all those pains for 9 months and during the time of birth that is considered the second most painful time.

She then sacrifice her marriage life by living here in Pakistan without my father for many years. My father was working in Saudia and he comes home after every 1 year or 1 and half year. I have seen my mother silently crying when my father leaves for Saudia to work and earn for us.

My father is now 62+ and mother is 50+ and now my father can't work anymore but what he can enjoy now? My father and mother has sacrificed their life just for us so I choose my mother as most most important person in my life.

Second is my sister that is also because of struggles of both of my sisters. Even now they are married they are struggling to be best wives her husband and mother for her children. I can't see them in pain and it really hurts me a lot when they got into any trouble that is hard to solve for them. So I love my sisters also just like I love my mother.

This is all from me for the "Steemit Engagement Challenge, S9w3: What is a woman?". I invite @samminator, @preye2, @malikusman1, @steemdoctor1, @simonnwigwe, and @lavanyalakshman to participate in this contest.