SEC13 WK3 "Is drama only for women or is it also for men?"
Steem greetings from the motherland-Cameroon to all friends on the Steem for Ladies community. It is week 3 of the season 12 engagement challenge and today I’m happy to share my thoughts about the topic.
This week, the topic for discussion focused on "Is drama only for women or is it also for men?". My thoughts will follow the guiding questions as raised below 👇.
Are you dramatic by nature? Yes, no, or maybe? Why?
A person can be termed dramatic when they tend little or no events into something big. They tend to create emotions where there is nothing and react to any little things in life. In a nutshell, they exaggerate their emotions.
Looking at the above explanation of who is termed dramatic, I will say I am not a dramatic person by nature. I hate it when someone is dramatic because it creates more tension and risks your loved ones.
For instance, I have a dramatic sister who tends to exaggerate every little thing in life. One day, my elder sister and I left the house for a meeting and my sister was at home with my elder sister’s kids. While she was busy making her nails, my elder sister’s daughter went to the kitchen to cook as she was hungry. While in the kitchen, she had a minor accident with the knife. My sister called almost the whole family and put everyone under tension that the child had cut off almost all her fingers with a knife while trying to slice onions. We rushed home just to realise that it was a minor accident with the knife.
From this incident, I hate dramatic people as they nerve me and I don’t like being around someone who is dramatic.
Do you think your opposite sex is more dramatic than yours? Why?
It all depends on an individual as everyone is unique in their way. As much as I hate dramatic people, someone will like to be around them. I know one of my friends who likes to be around dramatic people because they cause her to laugh all the time.
In most cases I have come across, mostly women are more dramatic than men. Notwithstanding, some men are also dramatic to an extent. Men mostly control their emotions and will hardly exaggerate their emotions but from their reactions, one can say they at times are dramatic.
When you get sick, do you tell everybody, or do you keep it to yourself? Why?
Interesting one as I don’t get it when someone is sick, instead of concentrating and healing yourself, you post on WhatsApp status announcing how you are sick.
When I’m sick, the only people who know about my ill health are close family members like my husband and any sister or brother we discuss often.
First, I don’t like someone to pity me when I’m sick. When you pity me, it’s like death is about to take me away. I have experienced a situation where I was hospitalized and my mother-in-law came to the hospital, saw my condition and started crying. It demoralized me and I felt bad. Since then, when I’m sick, I keep it to myself and at times only inform my husband who is an introvert.
Are you one of those who adds some drama to the situation, or do you tell things as they happen?
I do not like dramatic people so do not like to create drama when faced with a situation. As I earlier said, creating drama puts your close ones at risk because they cannot control their emotions towards negative energy.
I like to say things the way I see them even though some people have problems with them. When I witness a situation, I say it as I saw it but if I was not a witness to it, I stay quiet. I like to deal with evidence and not with assumptions.
What drama have you created in life or public? Tell us all about it.
As I earlier mentioned, I am not a dramatic person in life. I always take everything I do seriously. Creating drama does not help in any way but rather can put your relations at risk if they cannot control their emotions towards the drama scene you create.
This is the end of my presentation and I would like to invite @crismenia, @paholags, @crisvera and @josepha to share their thoughts about this topic.
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Sometimes it is good to be dramatic, so people can understand you when you're saying something meaningful. Thanks for the invitation and best of luck to you.
For me, I do not think being dramatic is necessary because at times it kind of put your relatives at risk as the case of my dramatic sister. Her dramatic nature creates unnecessary stress and tension within the family. Thank you for wishing me well.
¡Holaaa amiga!😊
Me encanta que abortes el tema del drama en dos ángulos porque, generalmente se tiende a etiquetar de dramático solo a que exagera una mala reacción y, en este caso, yo suelo evitar mucho este tipo de dramas porque son muy problemáticos sin embargo, cuando se trata de ser efusiva en un movimiento de alegría, allí si estallo en felicidad dramática jajajajaja.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚
Thank you for engaging and wishing me well. Being dramatic is not necessary for me because you tend to exaggerate things and create unnecessary tension.
Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 13 in the Steem For Ladies Community.
Most at times women are more dramatic than men, and men are also dramatic to some extent, well we're all humans.
Thank you for taking time to read through my post and giving a positive feedback.
Hola amiga 👋
Leyendo lo que cuentas de una de tus hermanas que es dramática yo creo que las mujeres somos demasiado dramáticas, por eso yo siempre digo gracias a Dios tengo hermanos y no hermanas porque Dios mío inventan unos dramas increibles. Estamos iguales a mi tampoco me gusta crear drama.
Fue un placer leerte. Saludos.
Women are drama creates unnecessary stress and the reason why I do not like to be dramatic. Good for you that you have brothers and not drama queens. I battle with one of my sisters everyday due to her dramatic nature.
Being dramatic can be bad at times. It could cause tension but just like what your sister did, I can't helo but laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. She must be a drama queen to have done that hahahahaha. You on the other hand would have been very angry, but that's the fun lol.
Saying things just the way they are is good but I love it when it's fun. I enjoyed reading your content.
Success!
There is no fun in being dramatic, the reason why I don’t even want to associate with such people. My sister’s dramatic nature can cause someone to have high blood pressure.
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Why do I feel like I know your sister?
God, sometimes I feel like tightening some loose nuts in my sister's head too. She can exaggerate eh, but it's not good. Even when something serious happens, you may also think she is exaggerating as usual.
I wish you luck in the contest @chant
Maybe 🤔 you know her, who knows hehehe. Exactly why I said even when you are serious no one will take you serious because they already know it’s your nature to dramatise everything. Thank you for wishing me well 🤗🤗.
Greeting friend ,
Thanks for sharing your genuine thoughts on the topic of drama and how it relates to men and women.
It's clear that you prefer to avoid drama and value straightforward communication. It's very important to have a balance in expressing emotions.
Success in the contest .
Greetings friend, I love to interact with genuine friends and not dramatic people. When there is genuine communication, life is good without any problems even though human beings always have their flaws. Thank you for wishing me well.