SEC13 WK5: We are not perfect!

in Steem For Ladies11 months ago

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I'll look at myself in the mirror and then look at my friends. They looked more handsome that I was. Their skins, eyeballs, mouth, ears and legs were just so perfect without flaws. I felt I was the only one with flaws not until I came to realise that these ones I envy in terms of appearance has flaws too. I'll then look at those who have bow legs, big heads, short, fat and lean. I'll then summarize it with the word Imperfection. No one is perfect in everything. One may be good physically but may have other flaws academically, spiritually, socially and otherwise. This contest sheds more light on the following personal questions which I'll give answers to.

What do you want From Life?

Our first parents were made with the ability to do everything perfectly without any flaw. Their level of intelligence even to the point of giving names to animals was 100%. Their bodies were just so perfect, no disabilities or implications in health. These are what I personally want from life. I want to become that irresistible human being with no flaws in my physical body, all body parts in good shape. I also want to be as intelligent as our first parents were. My knowledge would be irresistible and boundless.

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I'll not have to read overtime to understand something perfectly. Asides this, I also want to a happy person. There's no better thing that being happy in life. In the world we live in now, our happiness is tampered with due to factors like poverty, illness, hunger, and disabilities. If these imperfections are completely taken off and everyone is perfect no one is greater than another, the world would be a better place to live on.

What are your fears?

My fears in life is making the same mistake our first parents made in life which made them lose out the opportunity to live forever on the earth. Another is that of kicking the bucket at an early age. Death is not something that should be feared but when it comes unexpectedly, people give in to fear and begin begging God to protect them in all their endeavours. Just imagine on your way to school, you have a ghastly accident that led to your death. You didn't plan such death and never expected it compared to when you're old and know that one day, you'll certainly kick the bucket.

So passing out at an early age is one of my fears. Temporarily, another fear that keeps me on my feet is poverty, the fear of not having basic necessities to live by the day is what I try so hard to avoid, that's why I'm working hard while balancing other basic necessities in ensuring I'm financial stable so that my children won't pass through difficult times. Lastly, my fears as an introvert is to be a public speaker in an event. When I became an introvert 5 years back due to some factors, I find it hard to be a public speaker even in competitions in attend. I try fighting my fears but it seems to engulf me always. These and many more are my fears in life.

What are your strengths?

Everyone has his or her own strengths and weaknesses. I'll break these down in various factors which includes spiritual, academic, physical and environmental.

  • Academic Factors: My strength in terms of academics is that I'm very good in cramming. I love dislike reading ahead of time. I love reading a day to my exams to help me capture everything. Even if this may feel stressful and tiring, I tend to understand better this period and I do excellently well in the exams. This strategy has worked for me of which I sometimes call it Grace. Asides this, I have this ability of teaching people especially children to their understanding that's why I'm always looked for to teach subjects like mathematics, physics and chemistry.

  • Physically and spiritually: My strength physically is that my calm nature has made many want to be friends. This is all possible because of my upbringing morally. I've also been able to boldly preach to people with the biblical knowledge I have. I've been so eloquent and logical in terms of reasoning with them using the scriptures even when I am little. I have other strengths of which these are a few.

What are your flaws?

I have flaws that have tend to cripple me in various aspect of my life. One of such is my introvert nature. I became an introvert 5 days ago. When I was more extroverted, I do go out for competitions and win for my school, socialize with people and is always a public speaker. Everyone liked me for this not until an incident made me an introvert completely they I find it hard to break no matter how hard I try in connecting with people. I find it hard to be sociable as I was before, I'm not a public speaker as I was before. It has affected everything that made me a bit perfect. These are my flaws.

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What can you do to become a better version of yourself?

I think what I can do to become a better version of myself is to improve my abilities by taking in knowledge biblically and physically everyday. The saying knowledge is power is undoubtedly true as it mold your behaviour, character and the way you respond to certain things. Even when it comes to finances, learning a digital skill can help me become a better version of myself. In terms of my introvert nature, I tend to stay alone all by myself to become a better person. These are ways I feel can make me become a better version of myself.

In conclusion, we aren't perfect but looking forward to such a time our creator would make humans perfect again. For the time being, we should accept who we are and look for ways to better ourselves but not going extreme into doing so. This will help accept our imperfect nature and not being envious of what others can do that we can't, be it intelligence, physical appearance and the likes of them.

I invite @whizzbro4eva, @chukwu10 and @patjewell

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I have also seen people who are beautiful and handsome but they physically disable in one way or the other so being physically fit is what everyone is praying and hoping for, being an intelligent person is a very good thing to ask from life and I pray that life grant you your heart desires.

Life is all about happiness, even though we are facing difficulties in one way or the other the fact that we are alive is more than enough reason for us to be alive.
You are right my friend 🤝 we shouldn't make misstake that our parents made in the past, indeed death is one fo our fear in life they are some of my classmates who are no more and I thank God for being alive today.

Poverty is another because our parents wants us to be greater than them, hahaha 😅😂 I also find it difficult speaking to public but I am gradually overcoming it.
With tike you will overcome your flaws and learning from your past misstake will make you a better version of yourself.

Your write up is really amazing and I wish you nothing but the best ij ghis challenge donjabe a nice day 🤗 and steem on 🎊

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You are welcome 🤗

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 11 months ago 

Our first parents were made with the ability to do everything perfectly without any flaw.

You are, in the 90s the people were very smart and intelligent and the level of education was extremely good which is why even those that ended up in elementary school are still good.

I pray you get ride of your introvert nature. Success to you.

Thank you very much

 11 months ago 

Yes , You are right we should learn from the mistakes of our parents and we should improve ourselves to be a better version. Wish you success.

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Most welcome.

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