SEC16W3: Raising boys and girls
Good day my dear steemians today I saw this engagement challenge interesting then I decided to give it my very best by telling you the fact about raising girls and boys. Some people usually say the way the treat boys is not the way the treat girls, and also the way the treat girl's Is not the same way the treat boys, or some people will say that girls are to soft the should stay idle and the boys that are strong should work harder, all these fact are wrong , the should all be treated equally as far as the are for the same planet.
Before I answer the following question let me relate a story to you on raising boys and girls. My story goes these way:
In a little village there lived a family Mr/Mrs Smith. Mr/Mrs Smith had two children which was a girl and a boy,there names were Doris and David. Yes there were always called the D's any were the go. When the all grew up to the particular stage to do their work, Mrs Smith told Doris which was the girl to go outside and play with her friend's, while David which is the boy will stay in the kitchen with her, theses continued till Doris got adapted to it. Now Doris can't sweep, can't cook, can't mop, and so many others activities being done at home. Now when the Mr Smith saw that this is getting out of hand she caution the wife to treat them equal not giving everything to David to be doing, the kept on arguing ,and these usually got them to fight among them self. So to stop all these fight Mr Smith decided to leave the matter in hand till she regret....... When it was time for marriage Doris got married to the CEO of a company a David got married to a beautiful woman (not only beautiful but extraordinary in all the house activities ) . Great now these is where it will affect Doris. Once the husband is back and request for for, either she will buy food from the market and warm or she will call the brother to come and help her cook. Now her husband not knowing that it isn't her that cooks the food but her brother will praise her because her food is sweet and the worst part is that she can't even mop and she plays always she doesn't behave like an adult.
One a particular day the husband was hungry and requested for food she replied by saying okay, your word is my command when the husband was asleep she went outside to call her brother to prepare food for her husband and now her husband that went to get something from the kitchen over heard everything and made her surprised with a cough, Her husband didn't even wait to hear her speak he threw her out of the house and abused her saying she is not even ashemed of her self. She went to her brother house to stay and she also narrated everything to her brother. Now she regrating everything that happened. Now it all because of mom's fault. To get the story short David's wife gave birth to 4, children, and Doris got married to a new husband. She can cook and do any other activities in the house, because of her stay with her brother. *Surprised.
Should boys and girls be raised in the exact same way?
No. According to my story Doris regret everything that happened while they were little. There is a law that say everyone is equal. There should train them in a way that will be good for them. Well some says to differentiate between girls and boys, the will say Pink and Blue. But that doesn't count again because some girls loves red, blue and some many others more colours.
In conclusion girls are equally with boys, know one is above or below the law everyone is equal.
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Interesting story you have shared with us about Doris and David. Well, parenting I believe is hard work. Boys and girls should be trained the same way. Good luck